Is it normal or weird/immature for people to go clubbing in their mid/late-30s?

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I don’t think it’s weird or creepy. I just don’t have the energy for that stuff anymore—I’d see it as a red flag if someone was doing that frequently but just because it would indicate their lifestyle was incompatible with mine, not because there is anything wrong with it.

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Even though there's nothing wrong with it, most people outgrow clubbing, specially as a regular thing, my socializing time ends at 9.30 pm, sundays ends at 4pm.

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Why would it be weird to have fun as a youth? In the grand scheme of things 30 is still fairly young

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You called those people in their 30s weird and those 40 and up creepy. It's neither. And don't forget the "unresolved mental illness".

Coke goes on in clubs? You sound chronically online. People go out to the clubs to have a good time at any age they deem necessary. There's nothing wrong about it as long as you can still dance. Even better if you go with your partner.

If those people in the article feel relieved, that wasn't their activity in the first place.

Also can't believe you just link that garbage article as science.

Like consistently? Meh might be a little sketch and speak to their maturity level/willingness to grow up.

If it’s once in a blue moon or infrequent then no. Bring on the bottle service, DJ and strobe lights baabaaay!!

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Some people like clubs, some don’t. I’m not a fan because they are soooo expensive lol, but I go twice a year with a large group of friends when we all do a trip to Vegas or Miami. So for me, I would find it an issue if they went weekly, but if they went every once a while, then whatever. And we are all in our 40s

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I love dressing up and dancing💃🏽

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Let’s go dance 🕺🏽

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I go to clubs frequently to see DJs perform.

By clubs, I don’t necessarily mean nightclubs but warehouses, parks and open spaces where house music festivals and shows are held.

More recently, i have started only going to lounge/clubs because I find it better to enjoy the music in a smaller setting , smaller crowd and one maybe max two DJs

The music is the main motivator, really.

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No

You do you.

Age is fictional live to please you

I think it is… plus you have to be around all the young 20 something’s 😂 concert, brewery, rodeo is where it’s at.

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