I've received a feedback of being too honest, and too personable which could potentially damage my work reputation (haven't yet). It made me feel personally attacked. Is this a real thing?

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Run from a boss or company who thinks too honest and personable is a problem

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No, as long as you are polite and you are making the comments with the understanding that you are trying to help not criticize.

People are too sensitive and your honestly is likely needed.

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