Ladies, random question, but would it bother you if your fiance watched porn.

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Yes, I’m not interested in men who haven’t outgrown this. I think porn is for your youth. I think men who watch porn beyond their thirties are immature, sensually stunted, bad lovers, macho, undisciplined and boring. I don’t think you can have a healthy sexuality or view of women if you regularly watch porn. Regularly means multiple times a month. If it’s just a few times each year, I don’t mind.

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I agree. Most of the men I’ve dated watched porn and have all the issues you stated. I try to ignore it but I think a lot of issues stem from this.

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Yea. My husband watches it and I’m not a fan but not a deal breaker. He limits to once weekly and I’m fine with it as long as it’s subtle

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You think. Guarantee it’s more

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Nope. Been with my husband for 10 years. We both watch porn and still love having sex with each other. Self-pleasure is amazing if you're comfortable with your body.

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Doesn't everyone?

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Yes. I would love to know how many of the women saying it would bother them are married/in a relationship

Nope

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See I don’t think it would either but my friends are hurt by it haha

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Join him

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Yes and absolutely

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Yes. This will be a no no for me

Thank you all. This has been insightful

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