Ladies who are dating- how many men do you talk to simultaneously? How are you staying sane?

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I donno if I can still say I am up for dating 🤣 I’m seeing my future as that single hot aunt to my friends kids ~ who travels & drinks wine 🙋‍♀️

I usually don’t have enough time to invest in many parallel conversations OR not many conversations happen which grab my attention. So will say average 1 or 2 good conversations not more at a point in time while there could be other hi, wassup, weekend plans etc etc dry texts if you know what I mean those who take hours/days to reply

Sanity ! I gave up on dating 🤣 I am working on a job change at the moment so that’s the only thing getting my undivided attention & giving me company !

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I wish we could sing "I see the light from Tangled" haha but yea until then I'm with you :D !

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