Me spying on my future wife to make sure she doesn't sleep with more than 1 man.

Best self-care tips for dealing with loneliness/sadness this time of year? This is my first Christmas without my mom and it just feels like nothing will ever be the same again 😭. If you’ve lost a parent can you give me advice on getting through the holidays? Being a parentalish figure to my students is both healing and heartbreaking.

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Asking for a friend - anyone staying in a marriage just for the kid(s)?

It's not like the marriage is terrible or unhealthy, but they would take an out if not for having had the kids.

Anyone else experience this? I'm wondering how common this is.

Once when I was waiting tables, I had a guy pay me cash. The change was 45 cents, which I didn't give back to him because like who wants that. He then asked where the change was, and when I explained that I didn't give back the loose change, he made a big stink about how dollars and cents matter and didn't leave me a tip. He was a republican staffer on capitol hill.

"she doesn't have good boobs" †
👀

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

People who live with housemates / have a garden. Does it get noisy / do you find people in the garden earlier than (we) finish, that distract you from your work?

Also, living how is living next to a secondary school? Noise / traffic etc?

Thanks

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

Completely off topic
I don't have any friends.. sometimes i feel very lonely.. i don't have anyone to share my thoughts or feeling.. there is this void.. trying to pickup things to distract myself but it's not helping much... Seeking your inputs!! Sorry for this off topic question.

My mom turns 60 at the end of December. What would be a unique experience to get her (not stuff)? We want to spend around $1,000.

I lived in tampa in my early 20s and am now in my late 30s and looking to move back. One of the reason I left is because I felt I had too much energy for the city for a single young professional, but now husband is from there and we have a kid but we are both social people. Do you guys find it easy to meet interesting people and has the city gotten any more fun?

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff

My family/friends ask me for store discounts all the time. It's really uncomfortable to say no, but I have to. Any tips on how to handle these conversations?

My friend just got out of a relationship and hooked up with his ex's best friend a week later. They're now dating and seeing each other everyday.
I couldn't help but feel like this wasn't an appropriate thing to do for both parties. He also revealed that he cheated on his past exes.

I'm naturally feeling a bit weary of his character and questioning whether this is a friend I want to keep close in my life. Perhaps I'm being too judgmental?

After watching Arpana and her attitude in Indian Matchmaking, purani kahawaat yaad aagayi...
“ Na shakal na *^*^* Aur nakhre unchi unchi”

First time Dad and my 15 month old keeps running up the stairs at my in-laws place and they keep encouraging it. Stairs are almost 10 inches high with nothing underneath and I’m worried that he might slip and fall in between the stairs. My FIL is a bit of a know-it-all and keeps insisting it’s safe and I don’t agree. What do I do? Don’t want to fight the entire house full of people about this and kid enjoys it too much and cries a lot if I/we prevent him from climbing

Looking for a drinking buddy next week in Detroit. F. Mid 20s. No hookup.

Okay, it’s time to stop putting on a face about this. I love my boyfriend so much, but covid is ruining us. We are both still WFH and argue every few days about the dumbest stuff. My and his mental health are both diminishing and it feels like an impossible trench to dig out of. My stomach hurts every time we fight and I (independent of him) feel so stuck in this horrible global crisis. I don’t want to lose him, but I need to figure out how to dig us both out of this unsustainable mental state.

Hi all, I’ve recently onboarded as an HR recruiter with a small NGO. It has been wonderful so far. I want to make the most of my new role. If you have any suggestions or advise, I’d greatly appreciate it.

One of my friend is looking for a job and she has experience of 3 + years as Business Analyst is there any opportunity please let me know

9/7: What are everyone’s plans for today?

For me- treadmill, chest and shoulders.

When investing (nonretirement), should I go for the S&P500 or target date retirement funds with dates far in the future?
I figure that since the latter invests in 90% US & int'l stocks + 10% bonds...

I'm holding an offer from MakeMyTrip and another offer from OlaElectric. Ninjacart is willing to make me an offer. But they're saying that they'd discuss the offer only after the other company that I'm interviewing with has come up with an offer first. There's been a delay from HRs of the companies in a similar way. How do I urge them to send me the offer letter without sounding pushy? I had reached out to some of the HRs myself. Would that be too awkward if I accept & back out their offer?

Hi frds,

My CTC is 9.15
How much I will get per month ?

I feel like my boss never joins my working call with my stakeholders, is this normal in big tech, like they don't have time to sit in the same meeting with you to understand and course correct your working styles? Like I am supposed to take the whole lead from day 1 independently.

Any in-house antitrust counsel willing to offer up some advice? I just started in a firm's well-regarded antitrust group. What do I do over the next few years to make myself most marketable to move in-house? And when is that move actually feasible/ideal for antitrust specialists?

Seems like I can pull work from the whole discipline (merger clearance, civil lit, criminal) — should I spread myself across all of it to maximize my skillset/marketability?

All thoughts and advice welcome. TYSM :)

What examples of passive aggressive behavior have you seen on this job?

Looking for some guidance on Australia PR process. Been in the US for a decade and half and still on H-1B visa with lot of uncertainties. Hoping to apply for Australia PR and move.

Hello fishess, to join in wipro passport is mandatory like they mentioned in onboarding as my previous organisation(payroll company) it is not mandatory so i dont have a passport and my joining date is april 28th

any suggestions what to do

Any Recruiter here?
Need help

I always have faith that everything will make sense, and we will move into a better era. Sometimes it's challenging to maintain that faith, but it's always there.

34M looking to move to an area with other singles in their 30s. Currently in the UES but looking to move out for a change in scene.

Is there a way for my visiting parents to be able to get free incoming and outgoing on their Indian sims. They have Airtel and they are charging a lot for incoming and outgoing to Indian numbers. Also is there any pack to call India for free from US Sims ?

Guys how’s the innovation associate client of health care domain in persistent?
For .netcore azure developer.

Hello friends,
I wanted to share that I am in my first job as ui/ux expert and I am the only ux/ui person in the team. I am expected to take care of entire research and design of the product. It becomes very overwhelming as the product that I am working on is in a early phase and I am expected to think about ui as well as ux and also design entire app on my own.There is no user interview or user testing happening as my project manager thinks it can be done after product is launched. Please help!

Hi. Can anyone suggest decent and hygienic tattoo places in Gurgaon/Delhi NCR? Any small/minimalist female tattoo suggestions are also appreciated.

Hello Beautiful ladies of ZS. Heard many in ZS are looking to refer some female. I am a woman looking for a referral to join ZS in Knowledge management. I already applied and my Aptitude test is on Monday 14th. Need help :)

anyone up for a chat?

People who don't have new year plans or planning to make one. Feel free to connect over @HeyDoesntMatter on telegram.

Lets connect if free for conversation.

Hi fishes, I am a dentist and did Masters in hospital administration from IIHMR B. Currently I am working as Cerner EHR support analyst since Aug2021. Can someone refer me to ZS, healthcare solutions. Thanks in advance

Hello fishes,

I'm a Business Analyst with 1.2 years of experience and currently, I'm trying to switch to a different organization.

I have worked on and have been part of various analysis and case studies in my current project and have experience working on Bridge Insurity tool, Python , SQL ,C#, .NET, Data Structures and Algorithms.

Please refer me if there are any related opportunities in your firm.

Thankyou!

Require Female Flatmate.
Location Pune Office Kharadi
Vegetarian
Non Smoker
Flat available from July 5th.
Within 1km from office in a gated society.
3 Bhk flat with basic fittings including AC.
Rent 40k/3.

Anyone here from Salesforce? I have 12+ yrs experience in OTC ... Any help with getting a job in Salesforce?

Does anyone recieve there salary for hdfc bank today??

Is there difference between BTSA role and 'business technology analyst' role at ZS

Hi ,
If I will opt for Zs accomodation for 2 weeks, then will that be deducted from relocation bonus??

Please assist.

I've joined ZS in January of 2022. How much hike can I expect?

Hi everyone,

I am working with axis Bank with 2.9 yrs of experience in retail credit with use of service now and team handling , excel.

Can I get chance her?

Hi ,
As this is my first month and hopefully I am going to get my first salary in ZS...
Please let me know as when can we expect to see/get out payslip and when will the amount get credited??

Hi everyone,
I have a fully furnished room in an already set and functional flat to sublet. It is located in sector 38 gurgaon, near Medanta.
PS: it’s a girls flat

Any ZSer who has taken HPV vaccine?

Hey all
I am looking for a female flatmate to share a 2bhk with me.
Gurgaon office
Flat is within 1 km from office.

Is anyone living in Vijay Vihar,AWHO Wagholi?
Beed to know how is the connectivity to ITPP