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Men and women are become really incompatible.
Any tips from married couples on how they are resolving this situation and the major conflict of interest between men and women?

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My analysis is below in the comments on why I feel they are incompatible and what is they conflict of interest they are facing.

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Basic biology, women look up to men, simple as that.
In recent times women have become more independent, grown in social status and yes now they expect even more.
Never seen a single couple where a woman earns and is the sole bread winner and the guy chills at home, looks hot at home and manages home.

From my personal observation as well, and biological clock as well, women over 30 are still desperate to get married and settle down with their 0.1 percentile perfect guy.

Most guys I know, if their parents don't force them and they get regular sex are more than happy to be single.

Women are more empowered now, its high time to normalize them taking the bread winner role and let me take a break other wise this double standards will kill the society.

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Why are they increasingly becoming incompatible and what is they conflict of interest?
-Men have unrealistic expectations of women based on what they seem in p*rn as still thinking women are the traditional women like 100 years ago who used to take care of children and housed activities.
-But women mindset have totally changed. They are educated, highly qualified, are working professionals and are independent and self-sufficient and don't need anyone else to support them. They now have capacity to earn more than even men and they would rather not get married to a man where he want to spend her whole time to take care of household activities and children and give up on her career. That is the harsh truth.
-Also, since they are more educated, higher earning, womens expectations from the men have also increased. They only want men with near about or higher salary than earn. This will reduce the pool of men that women are interested in to a very small number.
-So you see why men and women are getting more incompatible. Both don't want to compromise on taking on household chores or looking after children at expense of their career.
-I think this will cause reduction in number of marriages, number of children which is good as population of country will reduce.

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