I am overly stressed that my parents are visiting and staying with me for 5 weeks. Paid them for a cruise but still have 4 weeks. I am dreaded to live with them 4 weeks without social engagement cont'

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They are Asian parents, they will always want to live with the kid, living in a hotel when they are visiting me is basically betrayal and abandoning them.

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Just be honest with them and tell them how you feel. They are doing these thing because they love you

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OP
I am a Asian kid too

There are some bright side also...

I face same situation, but it’s a matter of only 4 weeks. Don’t stress too much

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a1,bright side is they pay for college and maybe down payment.

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Why can't they get a hotel

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Every year they visit, they will overstep in my love life, life style, workout schedule, work style. E.g, I am 28 and they set me curfew for 9:30pm to get back home after social events, which is impossible when I live in New York. They will ask me to wear tons of clothes than needed, clean my apartment not the way I do, trying to redecoration everything for my home. Trying to set me up with people I don’t even want. They will criticize my eyebrows because they think that’s the reason for me to lost my last boyfriend. And they push me to get married, to have kids. But I don’t want kids anyways, they just keep pushing saying that I will regret. And I currently have a quasi-boyfriend thing I need to figure out myself, and I don’t want them to meet him yet because the minute they meet the boyfriend they have got the grandkids name ready. I will have to see my neurologist 2 times and get triple medication for my migraine when they are over.

I’ve told them many times but they just believe I am over thinking and I shouldn’t be stressed because they love me.

Op you need to grow a spine, I'm sorry

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