My 13 year old is getting to be argumentative and pushing his buttons. I have a 18 year old, who went ballistic, that I had to call 911 once. I am getting concerned that I have to deal with all over again…but this time I want to deal with the right way from the start. Any book recommendations or tips ?

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Sorry to hear! I am going thru the same and it’s exhausting. Have you read “the grown up’s guide to teenage humans” by Josh Shipp?

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No..I will look into it. Thanks for the recommendation.
How is the book?

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