My bestie and I (30s F) are looking to meet successful/attractive/normal men. Online dating isn't working so we're going old school. Any suggestions on bars that single men frequent? Or places to meet guys?

What's your date of Jalsa??

26/F Toronto, Indian, dangerously independent
Bored of insecure men on dating apps 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️

Any tam brahm single boys? 30 F, eats chicken occasionally and drinks socially.

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

Found out my SO hooked up with 2 people in one night at a bar a month before we agreed to be exclusive. I don’t really have a right to be mad but I admit am a little grossed out by this knowledge. Fishes: how would you feel about this?

My confession is that as a young guy, I want us to go back to the office so I can meet driven, career minded, attractive women. So tired of being catfished and all the other BS on dating apps.

Edit: to clarify, I don't mean hitting on women at work. I would just like to meet quality women, and I don't go partying or to bars. It's very hard as someone in their 20s coming out of a pandemic to meet people.

26 F. Going a little stir crazy. Please feel free to swan dive into my dms.

Married to a man who raised kids as a single dad and did lots of good things. He’s now retired and his hostility is killing me. We had nice ($$$$$) dinner last night and thought maybe we will finally connect. Well on his way to restroom a group was having pic taken in lobby and blocked him. Ruined the night. Angry grouchy jerk. And it’s always directed at me. It’s daily. Very sad and lonely. I bring it up and he belittles me. Traveling limited my exposure and was ok. Now I can’t handle

Any NY F fish want to grab a drink this evening? 31M here.

Any chance of meeting smo serious on Tinder? I know it's mostly a hookup site, but have you met any exceptions?

Which country is good for dating as in where can I get good girls to date outside India? If given an opportunity, which country you would like to move to?

Hi, M - 25 here looking to get into the dating scene. Just moved from Michigan, feel free to reach out!

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

I am lesbian . I was talking to this gal then she stopped cold turkey. I’m striking out on dating apps. I’m in my thirties. I get hit on by men but I’m just not into it… 🤷‍♀️

30 M in nyc, down for drinks or dinner during the week?

I’m 27 years old, fit, cute, very well educated. Looking for a serious relationship!

The more successful a man is, the more socially awkward he is.

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Any tips on starting a Amazon FBA reselling business? I have 3 business partners.

Which law firms still have a good Westlaw subscription and encourage associates to use it?

Have you ever completely walked away from an offer without countering because it was too low?

Am I shooting myself in the foot by not including a cover letter in my in-house applications?

Hi all, could you share which work backgrounds you are coming from? And what helped you to grow in EA role? Will share my story in comments

Best pizza in chicago? Deep dish doesn’t count! I’ll go first Piece Brewery & Pizza

Hi, need more likes and reacts for better reach and also looking jobs in Pune, MH, India for Software Testing.

Hello fishes
It’s been a month that HR told me that they’ll release offer, but it seems that approval is still in progress, is it normal?

So long US, it’s been a great 9 years, came with 2 suitcases , leaving with 2 suitcases….. and a quarter million dollars in cash 🙃

Any advice on how to find new creative interns in NYC? We aren’t a big agency but we have some great opportunities!

Guys PWC AC providing me permanent remote work, is it true ? Or it just kind of false commitment as they have not mentioned in offer letter.

I'm 6 months old at D! Planning early promotion next year.. counselor and pm both are backing me.. I need to go to India for at least 4 weeks in Dec ... most probably would be rolling off from current project by then .. would this vacation hurt my promotion chances coz of utilization etc?

Is it expected/normal to get pregnant spouse Mother’s Day gift?

Hi everyone ! Anyone from Mumbai or HYD Liability Operations Team or KYC & AML role.

I want to switch job at Mumbai, Banglore or HYD location. If anyone can help me out..

Wondering if I should look into anxiety meds (or if I’m just a baby and need to get used to this life).

Have you tried any? Did it help? Affect your productivity? Which ones? tya!

anyone willing to help me out and send throw this post some likes, need to access DM's, please and thankyou!

Hi, anyone successfully subletting their apartment (TF Cornerstone)? Would love to know how you went about it. Thank you in advance.

If there’s anything NYC teaches you most, it’s to be more independent than you already are.

Best month to find an apartment? Currently a nomad working abroad so want to strategically time my move back to NYC. Lived here for 5 years but always stuck in the summer rental cycle

I’m a 28 yo guy and can’t pass the 45x cut when renting a studio in Manhattan. Depressed…

Any Hr people out there..my wife is going through a harassment case against her boss. He is retaliating against her and other staff. On going for years. Most recently she had to take a leave of absence. There is a formal investigation into him. What is the timeline this should take ? And should he be allowed to have 1on1 talks with other staff members?. He is in damage control now trying to buy everyone lunch and doing his own PR tour. Month into investig doesn't seem like much has happend yet.

Is anyone else super emotional that the restrictions were lifted? I didn’t leave at all during the pandemic and seeing the full journey for the city has been very overwhelming and heartwarming all at the same time. I ❤️ NY

Anyone move from Jersey city/NJ to NYC? If your office is based out of nyc, but you’ve been living and wfh in NJ, how much more % do you end up paying in city taxes if you move to nyc? Other pros/ cons/ would you recommend moving in your late 20s?

Pet owners: I have a friend cat/house sitting for me this weekend (three nights). What is an appropriate thank you payment? She’s my friend so it feels weird giving her cash? I was going to leave a few bottles of wine, maybe a fresh baked good?

Anyone can recommend good Meetup groups/events in nyc? I feel like a lot of events I find there show the author books +20 ppl coming and I can’t even see who are those coming. Not sure if it’s a scam

I’ve decided I cannot afford rent in lower Manhattan anymore. Been here for 6 years and make more each year but this is just crazy now. My 2 bed 1 bath went from 5200 to 6800. Bruh that’s just insane

Best places to shop for dresses to wear to summer weddings?

I’m trying to break my lease. I have notified the management company of my intent to do so in writing. They are just refusing to respond and keep ignoring my follow-up emails. Do I have any recourse? Can they physically bar me from leaving?

PS: I have legal cause for being able to break the lease and I know that there is zero legal recourse they have.

Has anyone had roommates who got sick with Covid and they managed to not catch it from them? If so, what precautions did you take? We have a good relationship and so far he’s been staying in his room and using a mask whenever he needs to use the restroom or grab water from the kitchen. I am the only one who touches the fridge and takes his food out so he can eat. What else can we really do?

Any recommendations on how to find a roommate in NYC?

Have a 2 BR in midtown east, if anyone is looking! I’m a pretty easy going 25 year old M looking to have fun in NYC outside of work. Clean and respectful. Classic hobbies... gym, sports, trying restaurants, etc

Posted about this a while back but didn’t get a definitive response. I have a bunch of Manhattan prep GMAT books from the past few years that have little to no writing in them. There’s probably 20 of them so pretty heavy but I’m looking to give this away to someone for free. Only thing is I asked for you to take all of them versus just a few. I live in downtown Manhattan near the stock exchange and hoping to give by the 24th. Thanks!

Looking for a 3-4 week short term apartment rental in NYC - any suggestions on where to look for short term sub-lets / rentals?

Currently exploring options through AirBnB.

Thank you!

Looking for a therapist, ideally in person, lower Manhattan and CIGNA. Any recommendations?

Best North Indian restaurants in Manhattan? ☺️