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Which one is good for better opportunity and WLB.
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Here’s an animated chart that shows how COVID-19 cases and deaths have grown globally compared to their causes of death like fire, influenza, and malaria over the same time frame. The timeline begins on January 1, 2020, and COVID-19 starts at the very bottom of the chart with zero deaths.
https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/2634167/?fbclid=IwAR3SfwQFl7UkyJ-DIYp1D_Y1idQM-tHdpuqVdK7SpMxqNI2sA-dO7-5qFS8
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So instead of talking it out with him.
You complain here.
Makes sense.
Looks like she is looking for some advice, looks like you are being rude DUDE
Have you been boning? Maybe suggest more of that? Could be a good opp for both of you to pass the time and learn some new things about one another.
Chief
Get him playing Skyrim. You won’t see him for days.
He is grieving and potentially has mild depression with the complete overturning of his routine. It may be especially hard on him since he is an extrovert, who tend to get their energy from being around other ppl. Exercise is probably the best medicine to get his mind off of things at the moment. Even a walk around the neighborhood (if allowed and with safe social distancing) and seeing neighbors can be a mood booster.
Ask him about his passion or hobbies and see if you can help him in anyway. This is the best time to pick a new hobby or passion...
What's sip
Chief
Shelter in Place. The specific legal order given by state governments to stay at home and not go out.
Honestly - maybe just stop suggesting thing and let him figure out how to not be bored or suggest things. When I suggest too many things to my husband, he starts to reject them all. Keep yourself occupied and see if he finds stuff himself.
I get SIP is hard ... he’s just so tired of being at home (I get that...I feel it too...everyone does). But he’s just so reluctant to try anything new. He’s an extreme extrovert, loved going out with friends, playing sports, etc. Didn’t have many “alone” hobbies / pursuits. He’ll do zoom with friends over drinks, Netflix, video games. But there’s only so much of that stuff a person can do.
Honestly it sounds like he may be having mental health issues. Personally I’ve been feeling affects similar to depression from being home all day which then makes me less inclined to do anything and reinforces the problem. Check out this article, it may give you some perspective/help here.
https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/how-to-prevent-a-depression-spiral-while-quarantined#1.-Recognize-that-isolation-can-have-a-negative-impact
His problem, not yours
I like this. Women take on this emotional burden way too often, when men should be able to make themselves happy on their own. You can be supportive, but it’s not her job to make him happy.
Let him be. And I’m not saying this to to be rude or a smart ass. Around week 4 of staying in place I started struggling but it wasn’t just bc I had to stay in place it was because it finally hit me that this isn’t going away anytime soon. The thought of uncertainty just got to me and as a result I stopped the little that I was doing to deal with SIP( my exercise routine etc.). My SO constantly suggested I did stuff and it just got me annoyed bc it’s not like I couldn’t come up with those ideas myself. I was handling something way more complicated than ‘being bored’ or finding motivation to work out. Just be there for him and let him be.
have y’all tried legos? my bf loves that stuff whereas i’m indifferent