My manager always double books the 1:1s with me and forgets to tell that he has. I end up joining and following up with him. I don’t have the control of the invite. This leaves me feeling unimportant. Why not cancel in advance or push it back?

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Don’t take it personally. Some people are just idiots. My senior partner makes time for associates on our projects and has the courtesy to message if they’re going to be late. Some people just suck.

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Thanks! He almost ruined my Thursday :/

Because you are not important, junior

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