My opposing counsel is literally gaslighting me in every meet-and-confer. They claim they never received emails that I have read receipts for, and they’re misrepresenting my position to the Judge in every joint status report. Dealing with a dishonest attorney is one thing, but dealing with someone who is weaponizing incompetence to delay discovery is driving me to a breaking point. Do I stay professional and keep a paper trail a mile long? Is it time to take the gloves off and ask for sanctions?

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If they are delaying discovery, why not file a motion to compel and attach the emails as exhibits?

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Keep your gloves on. Don’t get worked up about this. That’s what they want.

Everything is handled in email from here on out and draft every communication as if it will be attached as an exhibit. File your motions, bring up the sanctionable conduct but don’t ask for them at this time. It’s the subsequent motions you’re going to ask for them. You want to be absolutely perfect so the judge has no wiggle room to get around sanctions.

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Why would you sign off on a joint status report that misrepresents your position?

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Do you have electronic service where you are? We use e-service and the program the court uses will tell you when the other attorney/party opened the served document. I’ve had to pull those a number of times to prove that someone received something. If you have read receipts, though, I’m not sure how they can say they didn’t get something?

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