My recommender has been totally MIA and doesn’t respond to texts. What do you do in this situation? I thought it was someone I could count on, we were close enough to hang out outside of work and had a good relationship. Don’t know why they would act this way…

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Same thing happened to me - it sucks but don’t beat yourself up over it

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Ouch

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😢 I’m heartbroken

When are they due??

In less than a week!

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Do you have a backup?

There shouldn’t be any lessons learned.. yes it’s good to have a backup but you shouldn’t tee up “backup letters” - that’s not respectful to the 3rd person.

I would call up your recommender and see if you reach him/her.

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They may be going through a life event. Sucks tho, I’m sorry OP

If you still have a week, then give them benefit of the doubt. Worst case, you get pushed to R2. Mine was MIA for a while but still submitted

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