My wife is using my credit card too much.
Monthly around 13K.

Everytime I confronted her the ending is always the same, I loose the argument and end up paying everything.

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Woah. That’s outrageous. Can you freeze the card and force a conversation? Y’all gotta get your budget straight.

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How much is that as percent of your take home income?

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