Need suggestions on how working moms navigate backup care. We were doing daycare but had to navigate quickly from that nightmare. We have been nanny sharing but between the other family and the nanny, theyre always sick and we’re stuck alone repeatedly. Trying to explore daycare again but those aren’t great options in my area.

Fyi bright horizons backup care does not work in my area

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Is getting your own nanny an option? Or having a stay-at-home mom watch your child as well as tbeir own?

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Thanks, I have looked in to both, even looking on sittercity and unfortunately the cost is substantially more to have my own nanny

I’ve had both and honestly I find daycare more reliable, would you reconsider? Have you also tried a home or religious daycare at a church/temple?

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So my daycare is about 45 min round trip and I am remote. I used this daycare precovid too (but used to be on the way of my commute). I like the place ( I have two kids, one still there one in elementary). I try and make the drive worth it w errands and it breaks up being remote. I share pickups w my husband. It’s more affordable for my area which is $$$ so that helps too.

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