Not sure if horny because of dead bedroom or because of how lonely I am in my marriage

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Just joking 😂

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I am h0rny sometimes too when I think about how much fun and freedom I had pre-kids and pre-marriage

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Not that complex. Cost benefit. Ok to still complain about costs. Doesn’t generally mean they’re regretting the decisions and benefits

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Make a move on your wife/husband and have some fun. Show some confidence and see how it ends.

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Yeah because we haven’t tried that… SMH

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Why do you think you are horny because of either of those reasons? Being horny is very normal and if you aren’t meeting the need, you would obviously still be feeling it. If you’re in like, addiction level need, that’s obviously something to heal internally and I’m not talking about that.
Having dead bedroom is hell. I am a woman with dead bedroom because of my boundary and I feel stuck and on hold very often. Resentful that I’m wasting even more years of deserving healthy s*xual relationships because I’m still here trying to work on this marriage.

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Dead bedrooms are brutal. So many negative thoughts and feelings come from it that i struggle with

Elevated libido can be a sign for a broader need for intimacy, physical touch, and emotional isolation, driven by a need to alleviate social isolation. Try to change this situation somehow and have faith

I feel you there.

Honest question: shouldn’t either, if not both, of those circumstances make you less ‘interested?’

I am in the same place. Feel stuck and don’t see a direction forward

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