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27, male, Bengali

Have you guys considered leaving your house for toxic parents in late 20s ? Or if I decide to stay with them to save rent money then what can I do to avoid getting mental health issues.
I already have pinching chest pain and skin issues which are diagnosed and happening due to chronic stress and my main source of stress is my parents.

I just started a new job and am about to be 36. I want to start a family but I feel like I should be waiting due to this new job. However I don’t want to miss out. I’m thinking about freezing my eggs

How much of a nest egg would you expect a couple to collectively need in order to retire at 40 and live relatively comfortable (not lavish)?

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

If you are feeling anxious and depressed these days, just know that you are not alone.

Please put a note and I would love to pray for you. God bless you all!

Hi ladies, I'm in my mid 40s and I think I'm entering peri. I currently have a Mirena but I should replace it again soon, but one more will put me into my 50s(!!) and I was wondering if anyone here knows that they're in peri or menopause without having periods. Is there blood work or something to check? I definitely do not want to have another child accidentally. I've got 5 more years until my youngest is in college and don't want to start over again.

My fellow ADHD professionals,
Have you told your employer about your ADHD diagnosis? If you have then how have it benefited you? If you haven’t then why do you think it was the right move not to tell? I’m contemplating if I should tell my employer or not.

Love how i think... 'oooh haven’t been anxious in a while ’ then before bed I start to get anxious... 😩

Should I lease a car or buy it? Which is better? Does it impact the insurance rate?

Absolutely love my direct supervising partner, hate the firm management, pay is mediocre and I could get a 5 digit bump elsewhere, what do I do? (Mid-size insurance defense firm in southeast region)

Hi fishes,
Want some feedback for Employees Assistant Program (EAP) by Capgemini which provides facilities to connect with Therapist.
Actually I am going through some tough times(going through a divorce), want to connect to EAP to discuss my mental health issues.
I had connected once and they say that the conversations are strictly confidential.
Just wanted to know do they really keeps stuff confidential or can they inform my Manager regarding the personal conversations.

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

What are some of the nice things that your SO do for you?

I’m really struggling with mouth clicks when doing voiceovers. I make sure to stay hydrated and not eat before recording. What else should I be doing?

My friend invited me to hang out with her and her friends because I was feeling very sad about my breakup. Three of her friends end up hitting on me and just really invading my personal space. I honestly thought they had a joke or game of some sort. I tell my friend it makes me uncomfortable because it’s not something I’m looking for atm. She says I should take it as a compliment, but the only thing I feel is disgust that I now have to look forward to guys only wanting me for my body 😔

I was okay and then randomly saw photos of my ex that i didnt know existed in my message history to my friend (i deleted everything related to him the day we broke up) and it has brought back all the memories and pain. It has already been over two months. I hope this can go away.

Looking for advice and recommendations on starting a non-profit healthcare case management company in my area. The focus population served would be low-income seniors with the primary customers being primary care offices that could obtain contracted case management services based on the practice’s needs/financial constraints.

I have my MSW & nearing completion of my MBA. I have 11 years experience, 6 in healthcare inpatient&outpatient.

What recommendations do you have on starting this process?

My wife and I are both terrible housekeepers and our clutter is overwhelming us. We have two kids under 3 and a wonderful nanny but we need more help at home. How do we throw money at this problem? Where do we start to get ongoing professional help decluttering, organizing, cleaning, etc.? What has worked for you?

Hooked up with my ex today. Something about the holidays really tends to bring out my self-destructive tendencies.

Two kids under the age of 8 and I find that I struggle to spend enough quality time with them between their school and activities and my unpredictable job. What do you folks do to be better parents?

Why do recruiters never tell you which agency they want to talk to you about until they get you on the phone? I don’t want to waste anyone’s time and it would be helpful to know this info from the initial outreach. My experience with this only applies to healthcare, but would imagine it’s the same in consumer as well. Anyone?

Which has more listings: Zillow or StreetEasy?

Anyone still using avid on commercials? In NY it seems to be 100% premiere now

Hi guys,

Western Union or Oracle India ?
Western Union 25 lpa
Oracle 26 lpa
YoE 7.5 years
I would prefer wlb and tech stack

Any kindergarten teachers out there one-to-one? I'm wondering how to best utilize our Chromebooks.

Is there an easy way to switch XLOOKUPS to INDEX MATCH? Have a large file with bunch of formulas that don't work on all client machines (different excel versions).

Lateraled into banking and I'm getting killed. My aso will mention to do stuff as he's walking out, says do this this and this and by the time I process what he said he's out the door then I miss something he's like I told you to do it. If I ask questions to clarify he gets annoyed, he says read what I wrote again, how is what I said confusing, etc. Dude I just want to be fed info my first few months until I reach a critical mass level of info to run shit on my own to some degree's

Executive presence - what is ONE thing that helped you the most in significantly improving your executive presence during workshops, town halls, kickoffs etc.

What is the salary range for application development senior analyst in Accenture.

What is the salary range for Senior Software Engineer in Oracle India? And can anyone explain the general designation hierarchy in Oracle?

Why doesn’t Accenture give an inflation relief bonus like every other consulting firm?

It's official- SCOTUS overturns Roe v. Wade.

Dark days ahead

Hi Everyone,
My Brother, having 11 years of experience in Chartered Accountancy is seeking suitable opportunities to showcase his talent.
He has hands on experience & expertise in following finance related platforms- O2C,P2P,R2R,Revenue assurance,Consolidation,RPA,Pricing,Auditing,FP&A & ensuring Financials intact as per 606/IFRS

If anyone knows any opportunities or any lead or if can refer to any organisation, please do let me know.

What’s a failure you’ve experienced at work and how did you come back from it?

How am I expected to bill 1900 hours when I only have 8 cases and when I ask for work no one responds. I even asked the partner in person for work and he said he was slow and didn’t have anything for me.This month I’ve only billed 80 hrs. Its making me anxious because I don’t want to get fired for low hours but also I’m a first year so will they have some mercy on me? Lol

Any women doing GORUCK ?

Did anyone else make the move here from the US? Thoughts so far?

Any update about office location? Also fishes, if you could suggest good localities/societies, looking to rent a 1bhk, new to Kolkata. Thanks!

My office laptop requires service as the same isn't functioning well. Do I need to visit PS Arcadia office for the IT assistance?

Can anyone refer me for any position in Deloitte. I did bcom honours and I am a fresher.

Those who recently joined and got Kolkata as base branch,
did you get ur physical ID Card from Camac st. ofc?

Can anyone refer me to Deloitte usi for tax consultant or Audit please 😊

Guys. I need your suggestion. Shall i stay here in Kolkata or return back to my home town for a month or two provided Magnet doesn't have any space. My home town is nearby. It's not commutable by road but i can come here in short notice if any. I'm currently not assigned to any project so no one checks if I go to office. I have a home here, I have updated address of this place in Kolkata. But I want to stay in my home for some more days 🥺 Salt Lake will open then I would have no option to leave

Have any of you guys received the 'premium' backpack that is currently being sent to few dusi folks?
Want to know if they have started sending to Kolkata region or not.

So who is in office today? Pls share your experience..

Hi sharks,
Is anyone from Talent Acquisition in Kolkata?

Anyone moving to Kolkata this week or upcoming weeks?

Anyone up for Summertime Dinner this weekend in Kolkata?

Procedure to request for Deloitte USI Identity Card?
I have virtually joined on December,2021

Everyone going office regularly?

I have got Gurgaon as base location in offer letter. But since I lost a parent(my father) and relocating is kind of not possible for me at this moment can I ask them to relocate me to Kolkata?

PS - I am a campus hire so a fresher - Analyst

Anyone from Tax coming to office today to meet Joan ?

Hello Everyone,

My joining is on 11th July. I believe I have to collect the laptop from Camac street on joining date. But after laptop collection, should I WFH as the Technopolis office is not ready? Also, how much time does it take on first day for all the formalities? After laptop collection and formalities, I am planning to return to my hometown which is 250 km away.

Hey guys, planning to shift to Kolkata on 1-Aug-22.

Please guide me on best place/area to reside with small family.
I am coming from Hyderabad with family and a pet dog and looking forward to a good society with amenities.

Thanks!!