Practicing law in a firm ain’t nothing but some stress.

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And chest pain… don’t forget the chest pain …

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Agreed. It’s just a job though. Are there non-stressful jobs? My teacher friends look pretty burnt out. My doctor friends drink a lot. One of my friends is an ED at a non-profit. She’s constantly stressed about programming, donors, budget and fundraising. My big tech friends have crazy deadlines and are always waiting for layoffs.

You see a little bit of this in the medical field as well. I used to be in nursing and the mountain of stress was insane, even though some of the greatest thrills you could experience include assisting an OBGYN deliver a baby and reviving someone going into cardiac arrest.

And yes, there were times when either the patients or physicians would look at you like you were subpar.

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