Question time! Two part. 1) What dating sites or apps are you on and 2) do you feel like it’s been particularly tough dating in your 30s/40s during COVID, assuming that we probably date (on average) more seriously than 20s peeps? I personally have only been on one date! A zoom one last week.

Anyone know a good date option for 1st date - I’m in north county but taking out a girl who doesn’t drink on Friday night , so I don’t want to pressure her with a bar setting.

Saw a post in the confession bowl so I wanted to check this bowl out. Any hot, smart, rich and single guys in this bowl?😁

Are there any black single men preferably childless between the ages of 36-45 in this group? Would be amazing if you lived in NJ

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

Gonna be in Denver for a couple of days in mid-July, anyone down to play tour guide? Can promise flirty conversation + cocktails at the very least…perhaps more if the vibe feel right. 30 M, tall and, dare I say, handsome…in case that matters 😊

My ex bf hooked up with my gay best friend

Felt particularly good about how I looked today. And when I saw that a certain someone wasn’t at the office, I felt disappointed. Didn’t realize I was attracted until then. How do I un-realize it? 🤦🏼‍♀️

I need advice. I met an amazing guy on a dating app. We talked for 4 months and most of the convo was sexual. I fell so hard for him and it was because when we met up in person he was so kind, caring, and respectful towards me. He never initiated conversation with me first, but if I messaged him, he would respond back immediately. Then after 4 months he ghosted me on the app we were talking on. I texted him and he told me he had a gf. I am completely heartbroken. What kind of behavior was this?

Maybe this is the socialist in me but shouldn’t Moderna and Pfizer waive their patent exclusivity for their Covid vaccines? Don’t we have a moral obligation for the world to vaccinate as many people as quickly as possible?

It blows my mind that many countries won’t be able to vaccinate most of their people until 2023. There should be access to vaccine generics

Has anyone been to the UK lately from the US? What are the Covid requirements / restrictions? Thank you!

One of every 850 people in the state of North Dakota has died from COVID. We are a terrible country.

Do MBA student clubs use Teams or Slack? Do they use just the free tier?

Anyone else want to see the Zoom servers utilization superimposed on top of the COVID infection rate? Assuming they are eerily similar.

Any F in the Dallas area looking for casual dating options?

Fill in the blank: When guys want to impress a girl, they say “I was to show my ______ to you”

This who have had Covid, do you have loss of smell?

Any recent grads here who moved back in with family during COVID times? How much do y’all contribute every month to “rent”/groceries/utilities? Idk, I feel like I’m not contributing enough sometimes…

Do partners at top consulting firms have better WLB?
An Associate here contemplating whether all this is worth it.
Thanks!

Is EY GPS not in EY Parthenon?

What are some best practices for verifying the security of internally developed code?

Does anyone have any platform recommendations for automating the influencer vetting process? My firm vets manually and I have found that we have a lot of influencers w/ fraudulent following/engagement

Do you think the US will issue a 100% travel ban (aka nobody can come in or get out) similar to some other countries? When and how long?

Hi,
Can anyone please explain the significance of band 6B in Kyndryl? What is the hierarchy of bands?

Hi TCSers,

If anyone knows, what TCS UK gives in on-boarding kit? Do they provide iphone and macbook for UK employees?

Thanks.

Hi Fishers, What can my expected CTC be for a PO role at Servicenow? My current profile is 6 years experience with 19 LPA. I have couple of offers with 23LPA and 25 LPA.

What is the CTC like for software engineer role in Lowe's?

We lost an interim payment application for a client who has Steven Johnson's disease from a negligent prescription

Disappointed we lost

Not necessarily Big Law specific but any firms hiring 2-3 year L&E associates in the Dallas area?

Which is the best amongst
Siemens healthineers
Siemens technology and services
Siemens advanta

For a c++ developer, yoe 4.5

What bank do you use, and why? My old bank doesn’t have branches here, looking for suggestions.

Amex Platinum Users - How does “no preset spending limit” get reported to the credit bureaus? Just got approved and 6 months ago my credit was around 580 so this is a huge achievement for me, but I’m also obsessed with maintaining my credit score now. Google has not been helpful; too many answers are no answer. Thank you!

I’ve been in non-profit finance for over 6 years, now looking to go into compliance. I’ll appreciate any advice I can get.

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

Sometimes I struggle with the balance between “pushing myself out of comfort zone” and “being comfortable with who I am”. Anyone feel the same way?

I get crippling anxiety everytime I think about moving to NYC. I've never felt anything like it before.

Didn’t eat lunch or dinner. Would you judge me if I ordered two different snack boxes on my flight?

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

Feeling a deep void in close human connection after letting go a relationship that was lacking a future (I was interested in something more, he was unsure). Can’t stop thinking of reaching out and need strength to just stay with the loneliness and have hope for the better times. Would appreciate support. It’s been 2 weeks but I feel bouts of extreme sadness and desire to have someone to share my life and days with.

Have you ever traded flowers? I only trade 1 kind- your tulips for mine... You down? ;)

Who here has actually made a genuine connection from being in this group? Let’s hear your stories 🍵

Any ladies that would like to go out for dinner? 27M 🙃

Where them 30+ ladies at? 25M 🙋‍♂️😉

Anyone in to younger guys?

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

Any houston folks here?

Any fishes up and looking to get to know each other? 32, male, straight, 6’4”, athletic, etc.
I am a pretty good cook and have found a recent love for cooking Asian food in woks. I dream of a mountain house with gas stoves, and a sun room. Though would accept a condo for more sleep these days haha

Who here is willing to turn on networking for the next 2 hours?? People want to see their options in this bowl! You can then quietly go back into the shadows.

36F in Houston, Tx. New to the area and looking for friends.

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

Anyone ready for NYC gathering?

Would you pay for a match making service that would be based upon video profiles instead of written profiles? I have not seen this concept created yet.

Welcome to the 30s and 40s singles bowl! Here’s to hoping the posts in this bowl are a bit more mature. Relying on the honor system here, try not to lie about your age.