Reneging on an offer at a boutique. I plan to call the person who referred me to thank them and apologize, but do I owe the hiring manager or recruiter a call or does an email suffice?

I feel horrible about it but my counter offer is too good to pass up, even if it means burning a bridge.

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Rule #1: never accept a counter offer.

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25k cash is a lot for screenshots, I don’t blame you

Rule #2: Read rule number 1.

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We need more details to know if that is entirely true. Also can’t say I disagree with G1.

Got it. Yeah, then I would reach out to them both and explain yourself. I would want to talk to everyone just to show you really do care and feel bad. At the end of the day, it’s business and you have to do what you think is best for you.

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