Second pregnancy and 6 months in - curious if it’s just me or anyone else feels similar. Being / feeling ‘large’ is my number one pregnancy complaint tbh. it’s exhausted and impractical carrying around extra lbs - working out, hustling around nyc, doing chores, caring for a toddler, it all feels so much more taxing 🥵

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Good for you for still working out and staying on top of chores — I have been too exhausted to do either 🤷‍♀️

I feel you - it has been a struggle but still going. Idk why but I always feel more exhausted by house chores (especially laundry and cooking) than even the most intense work out 😂

I’m in the same boat: I think pregnancy with a toddler is exhausting (first pregnancy I could relax / sleep at the weekends, now I’m running around after a toddler)

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