I just started a new job 2 months ago, benefits and PTO don’t start until 90 days in so I still have a month before I can take off any time, and today found out my company doesn’t offer paid maternity leave.
I’m really struggling handling the symptoms and maintaining my full time job. Thinking about looking for a part time job to have more time to myself through the pregnancy since I won’t be getting a paid leave anyways, but lost on where to start looking. Any recommendations?

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Does your state have a paid leave program? My state (NJ) has a FLMA analog that provides for family leave plus an insurance program that provides somewhere around $950/week (max) in paid leave during that time. I make around $3k/week so it’s not worth it to me (pretty unfair) but if your state has something similar it may be worth considering.

Move. Write a letter to your representative and tell them you had no choice.

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