Should I give my boss a heads up that I have an offer in hand and am considering taking it?

Usually I don’t think I would. But we are a team of two that recently lost 50% of our team (no backfill). I like my boss as a person and don’t want to screw them over with just two weeks notice; I think the volume of work is too much for one person. I haven’t signed the offer yet but am considering it heavily because I think it’s a great learning opportunity and would be doing work I’m interested in.

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I gave my boss a heads up and the ability to match it and he did not. They were still (somehow) shocked when I left - take the opportunity! I had to work through feelings of guilt because I do so much of our team’s work. But ultimately, you work to live. Give 3-4 weeks notice if you feel guilty but honestly one or two more weeks won’t make that much of a difference for the company.

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Give 30 and yes. It’s a nice gesture that way you can help for a bit.

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You can give them more than 2 weeks, but don’t say anything until the offer is finalized.

Work is strictly a commercial exchange. You are exchanging hours of your life for money. You don’t owe work loyalty, they can and will terminate your employment if it wasn’t convenient to keep you. That’s different from liking your boss as a person, but don’t confuse the 2. You can still be pals after the fact.

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