Someone told me men who move later from SF to NY are always guys who are looking for a messing around phase in dating.
Sounded like a big generalization to be but also finding it not to be totally off. Thoughts?

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Lol, most people who move cities do so for work. Can't imagine people be yeeting themselves across the country cause they burned every girl on their coast already and want a fresh pool 😂

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Yeah cause the poor bastards are usually in tech and just spent their entire 20s working 20 hours a week and want to have some fun

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20 hours a day, not week!

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I haven't heard of that. I do recall seeing that SF has the worst ratio of men:women for single guys though, and that NYC is the opposite, so there may be some truth to it.

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So specific. Now do women who move from DC to Phoenix.

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Moved from sf to la to nyc and they're def just talking

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