Struggling in being assertive at work for a while, trying to go for promotion and although they give random feedbacks like visibility, changed to something else next 1:1 and so on, I have realised it is my confidence that mainly is lackin. I don’t know how long or why, but how do you practice being confident assertive self at work both for downward and upward mgmt? I already suffer from imposter syndrome so that’s there.

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