Switching firms and haven’t told it to anyone. Broke the news to a colleague who became a very good friend over the last 3 years at the firm. felt he was not genuinely happy. - sucks.

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Maybe he was just shocked, he might come around. I wouldn’t take it personally, he probs wants to leave too but didn’t take initiative like you did. Not giving him an excuse, just don’t want you to feel yucky. Congratulations on your new adventure 🎈🎊🎉🍾

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I was sad when a close friend dropped the bomb. Because it was a realization that life goes on and that motivated me to look for opportunities. Don't beat yourself too much OP. Good luck with your ventures!

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Take him with you!

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He's probably sad that he didn't leave before you. Don't let someone else's reaction get you down. Con

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Nobody really cares. Do you

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.. feel as if I should not have told him at all until when I quit. Such a yucky feeling this is.

That sucks but that is the friends problem. Enjoy this new stage in your life!

real friends support you, watch your back

Thanks All- I think all of your inputs make total sense. Thank you!! 🙂🙂

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