We have all been there—someone asks how you are, and you just say, 'I'm fine,' even when you're not. It's tough to be honest about what is really going on inside. What is one small, authentic thing you do for yourself when you are feeling down, that no one else sees?
It could be anything from a specific song on repeat to five minutes of just staring out a window...

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