weird question but anyone who is “dating around”, do you assume your partners are also dating around? i’m seeing 3 guys right now and I don’t want to tell them i’m seeing other people, but I think they just assume I am and I assume they are? i’m new to dating in LA lol

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They are and many would be butt hurt if they found out that you are. Lots of fragile male egos in LA (and probably elsewhere too). Date everyone! If anyone has a problem with it, they’re not worthy of being in your rotation ✌🏽

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Welcome to LA

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Not sure how incel is defined here when I have a healthy and longstanding relationship. But yeah, one that's run through like you wouldn't know~

I was born and raised here and even attended college locally. I’m 29 and currently dating four people, with plans to meet two new individuals for dinner this weekend. If you haven’t had a conversation about exclusivity, it’s safe to assume they may be seeing other people as well. This approach is quite normal based on my experiences and those of my friends. Also, most people in major cities aren’t really looking for serious stuff or are looking for the next best thing.

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seeing as in sleeping with or seeing as in going in dates with? depends if you made your intentions clear

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Ehhh I like the guys! they all have a different vibe I appreciate at different times and they were hard to curate lol

Assume that you’re not exclusive until you have the convo that you are exclusive. Also wear a condom lol

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Why wouldn’t you tell them? Not exactly building those potential relationships on a strong foundation if you’re already hiding shit…

Accidents happen and it’s common courtesy to let your partner know if you’re sleeping with other people. This isn’t about being promiscuous or not. It’s about being respectful of the people you’re fornicating with or not. But hey, you do you. Seems like you’re here looking for people to approve of your actions, not genuinely asking.

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