What do you irrationally and harshly judge people for?

I assume that people who don’t rerack their weights at the gym allow themselves to live in filth and squalor and had their mothers wipe their bums until they were in middle school.

Staying at a Hilton currently and have had tons of minor issues in the 3 days We’ve been here. Room wasn’t ready for 45min after check in time, AC did not work, maids did not clean room...continued

Anyone know of any body doubling apps? On my worst days, I wish I had someone to do this with.

This is a bit specific of a Q, but has anyone here gone to an ED treatment center in NY? Which one/Did you find it helpful?

I had a depressive relapse this weekend that resulted in someone I love getting physically hurt. Idk what to do other than go back to therapy but I can’t even get through the first hour of work today

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

Is anyone else hoping for an insane blizzard to hit mid-next week so they have an excuse not to drive downstate to spend Thanksgiving with their extended family? Some of my family's FB posts since last week's elections tell me it's going to be a long holiday weekend.

Anybody else struggling with the fact that nearly all their friends are coupled up?
Not in an envious way. Just... Damn, this sh*t can leave you very alone.

Anyone here have severe lower back pain due to depression or other mental stressors?
Had many X-rays, MRIs, etc and they find anything.
A specialist told me it’s most likely psychological.
How do you manage?

Can someone recommend affordable health insurance? I left the firm earlier and am expecting a gap of medical coverage until I find a job. Currently not actively seeking either...

How do you quiet your mind? I find my mind still races at night and I have trouble sleeping

Do any retail workers out there still get severe anxiety when you see someone without a mask?

Anyone has used any Ayurbedic med or nuska to increase the s## stamina or performance ... Between 36 Married man here

Bored as heck in my relationship. We barley talk. Don’t do anything together, just watch TV every night and on weekends…. What do you do with ur partner? Do y’all even have anything to talk about? I hope this isn’t how a long term relationship is supposed to be I cannot spend another 50 years doing this

Recommendations for office chair , I have a bad back and need lumbar support.

Help me get over my covid anxiety: had plans with a friend but they got exposed to covid. Got a neg rapid test but feel like they have a sore throat and still want to hang. Given rapids don’t necessarily detect omicron plus the symptoms, I’m a bit concerned. I’m WAAAY more cautious than most when it comes to covid (not doing indoor events yet, still masking). We’d be outdoors anyways, so do I put my anxiety aside and risk it or ask them to get a PCR and just postpone to next week?

How have people been handling quarantine? What life lessons have you picked up?

Masks at open houses?

With flu season (and COVID season?) just around the corner, I’m thinking of asking buyers to mask up at showings. Good idea or am I going overboard?

Found a sub $300 hand assembled chronograph diver watch that will go well with your Patagucci vests.

Happy week! Stay positive.. 👍

In my offer letter, nothing is mentioned about variable pay, but the recruiter had mentioned to me about 0-12% variable. Am I missing anything. Do they have any variable component in the salary or not.

Any recommendations for the best location to ride around the Bay Area?

Teeny confession/victory, but today I successfully folded hospital corners for the first time...at the age of twenty seven, I’m finally on par with an eight year old at bed making skills.

Hi fishes,

I have an offer with Fujitsu as Application developer in Application development and management services

Tech: .net, SQL
Yoe: 3

How is Career growth and job security in Fujitsu?
I was confirmed with Developer role at the time of interview. Will i surely get development role or they will put in any role?

Anyone from tata technologies.. I need some help

Guys,

Kindly comment who are all got placed through SCALER academy in product based companies with their company and package.

What does everyone think of Jason Kilar’s townhall today?

Any suggestions on what a second year sales executive at a consulting firm should be making YOE?

Anyone from Capability Network - T&O?

Trying to make a switch in my career to heavily software focused. I’ve been learning C++ using some online courses and I’m learning but I feel like it’s not practical when I want to apply to a job. Any good recommendations on how I can learn how to write/debug to get into a software entry level job

Worst paying cities for engineering jobs?

Curious about what kind of hobbies other engineers have, personally I love knitting in my free time

Can someone let me know about any good and MARA certified Australian PR agents in Delhi ?

Hyln falling everyday! What are you all doing?

Currently I have an offer from TCS and waiting an offer from BNP Paribas.
Which one is good to join in terms of job security and other perspectives.
Does BNP has all fixed salary structure.
TIA

Hi all,

The status on my ibegin portal of TCS is showing evaluated. What is the meaning of this? Salary discussion is done already. How much time will it take approximately to receive the offer letter?

Hi all,
Can anyone tell how much is the salary for Japan onsite from tcs.?
ITA grade

What is the salary range for Grade 9 in India in data management department or operations of Market Intelligence?

My friend’s dad was a firefighter during 9/11 who died very young because of lung cancer. He was one of those who were denied coverage. She was just having a really hard time this week. Her boss knows this and told her last Friday with a straight face that she’s sulking. Some of these VC people man.

I came to US few years ago , I have a heavy accent and still struggle to express myself fluently at times. Any advice on best online resources to help with my accent/fluency?

Bored as heck in my relationship. We barley talk. Don’t do anything together, just watch TV every night and on weekends…. What do you do with ur partner? Do y’all even have anything to talk about? I hope this isn’t how a long term relationship is supposed to be I cannot spend another 50 years doing this

Looking to purchase a record player. Anyone have any suggestions?

Post a pic of your food and I’ll rate 1-10. Friday food party begins here 🍜

Do you think Putin will blow up the world just because of his ego?

So much work, so little time😭

Why I could never be a manager:
If one of my reports called me and cried, I would hang up on them. Can’t deal with that.

The Longest Yard is Rob Schneider’s best movie.

Can I ask a cop to stay outside my door if I feel threatened at home?

Question for the Big Fishes! (E-Suite, senior leaders, Directors etc), how do you like to be approached or engaged with at social work functions?

What’s the best way to make a positive impression without defaulting to work related discussions or being bored with traditional small-talk?

I was tired of asking people to go to concerts with me so I booked 5 of them to go by myself, starting next month. Hope I’m gonna have a blast

Rant: my boyfriend is so annoying with this diet! I GET IT. You want to eat healthy! But when you have your friends at our place every other weekend they order pizza and you devour most of 2 boxes! But when I want pizza or wings or burgers I have to hear a whole spiel. “Can we pick something healthier?” “You can order ___ but can I choose something else on the menu?” “I don’t knowwww” like MY GOD. Then if I order something for me he wants half or bites! Sick of it!!!

I don’t hire people who bring up their support for the GOP in interviews. It makes me worried about their critical thinking skills, and their ability to be professional in front of clients.

she's a 10 but excel thinks she's an October

Over here doing my taxes on company's time 🥲

Vent post: Have a mentally ill family member who is not committed to getting the help they need (e.g., through therapy or medication). Been this way for years with no change or end in sight. Has anyone experienced something similar? Were you able to encourage that person to seek professional help? Frustrating situation and can’t figure out how to make it better.

My confession is that as a young guy, I want us to go back to the office so I can meet driven, career minded, attractive women. So tired of being catfished and all the other BS on dating apps.

Edit: to clarify, I don't mean hitting on women at work. I would just like to meet quality women, and I don't go partying or to bars. It's very hard as someone in their 20s coming out of a pandemic to meet people.

Just starting The Office once again. This is endorphins for my brain!