What is the best way to go about handling a disagreement with your superiors? Do you attempt to work it out with them directly or do you go to their boss/manager?

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I'd always prefer to work it out directly unless there's really no potential to do so. Going above your boss just seems like it'll inevitably create more animosity. I'd only go this route as a last resort.

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I agree with working it out with them. It’s just sometimes it can be difficult to do that, especially if you are in a toxic environment.

I'd have a sit down with them and explain your point of view. Make sure you stay professional and just talk about how you want to help this situation by talking about it. Be receptive to their feedback, and try to work together on a conclusion to solve the issue

Having a chat with them seems to be a good way to go about it. Thanks for the insight!

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