what’s the best way to have the conversation with your supervisor/manager that you’re quitting/putting in your two weeks? feels like such an awkward conversation to have and i don’t know the best way to approach it. sorry if this seems silly; this is just my first time quitting a company and not sure what the best way to address it is. any advice would be helpful!

additional information: i see them almost everyday; the role is hybrid, so i don’t think i could just email and be done with it

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Just tell them and be done with it. Why would telling them you are leaving be awkward if you are on PIP?

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That should be a helpful answer. If you don’t find it helpful, I have no idea what answer will be helpful to you.

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Bruh you’re on a PIP. It’s informally called Paid Interview Period for a reason. Your leadership already has you halfway out the door. Do less at your firm and focus on getting a job before they fire you.

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this doesn’t answer my question as to the best way to go about the conversation, but thanks for the feedback anyway i suppose.

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continued: got put on a PIP and i think i’m about to seal the deal with another company that i’ve been interviewing for, fingers crossed. i don’t know how this conversation is gonna go and i don’t know the best way to prepare 😪
to be clear, i am NOT putting in my 2 weeks until i’m presented an offer. just wanna be prepared for whenever the time comes

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One important thing to keep in mind that should help reduce some stress - while this is the 1st job you have quit, you aren’t the 1st staff who has quit. Your manager has been through it dozens of times. I would agree in person is best. Just throw 15 min on their calendar and talk to them. Once they see the calendar block, they will probably assume “oh such and such is going to quit”.

It will be ok. Just be honest and don’t burn bridges.

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Just be upfront. Have a phone conversation with the person you report to.

Most processes after that are automated after that call (at least they are in many large organizations) where you go online, submit a resignation letter, and the process follows a series of standard steps.

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You are on a Pip. They honestly expect you to leave and won’t care.

Set up a 15 minute call or meeting. Start off saying, I wanted to say thank you for your feedback and support over the last few months. After a lot of thinking I’ve decided to put in my two weeks notice. Then either “I’ve found another position that I’m really excited about” or “I’ve decided to take time off and reevaluate my next move”. Again thank you and I will help to transition my work over the next two weeks.

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It is very awkward. I felt the same way. But i just printed out my notice and when they were free, I asked if I could have a moment- presented them with my notice and just said “I’ve been presented with another opportunity I’m going to pursue and I’d like to formally submit my notice” - that’s it.
They may ask you some questions about it or they may just accept it and say OK thank you. Be prepared for them to say we don’t need the full two weeks and just let you go - Ive seen that happens sometimes - especially if you’re on the PIP.

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Just be straightforward and simply say you are pursuing other opportunities. You do not need to give any further information than that and your last day. Your manager has been through this a dozen times, at least.
If you are already on a PIP, believe me, they won’t be bothered by your resignation as a PIP is nothing more than an HR tactic to document reasons for your already planned termination.
Just simply state you are pursing other opportunities and your last work day will be this. Done. Hopefully you will luck out and they will just pay you out your last two weeks and let you go immediately.

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Set-up a 10-15 minute meeting time and send the invite to your manager. Title the meeting “Update” or “Brief chat”.

This sets the ground work and expectation of what the meeting is likely for. The Manager is more at odds than you would be for the meeting under your own terms.

In the meeting start with your appreciation for the role and what you’ve learned, finish off with you either don’t feel the role / company / fit is right for you. You have decided to seek other opportunities. You don’t need to disclose where you are going.

Finish off with: you will send a formal resignation letter later in the day or the next day. Thank them once again before signing off or leaving the in person meeting.

Nothing to fear. People quit their jobs everyday. You are the one in control. The job, boss, company does not own a person. It is an employee’s choice and right to leave something that is not right for them.

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Be courteous, thankful for the experience and leave on good terms. Never burn your bridges becauae you never know when people will show up further down the track in your career.

thank you everyone for the helpful responses. i took the route of setting up a call with my supervisor to let her know that i’d be moving on with another firm, informed her of my last date, and expressed appreciation for everything she’d taught me up to that point. i had an idea of what i wanted to say, but i just wasn’t sure how to structure it prior to making this post and you guys helped me with that, so i really appreciate it. i hope you all have a great 4th of july week! :)

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