Would you expect a guy to pay your meal on the 2nd date ?

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I expect him to pay for all the dates but I’d be prepared to pay if he couldn’t/didn’t want to I’m the woman who makes mental notes because every meeting is an interview. 💅🏽

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Same. I would pay if he didn’t want to. But I would definitely not see him again lol.

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No. I’d rather split the bill.

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Every single date until marriage the man pays for.

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Every date.

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It's a normal thing in China, but I don't understand US's idea of men

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Of course! He’s taking you on a date

I don’t expect anyone to do anything for me.

Yes, absolutely. It’s only the second date, so yes. I feel like the guy should pay for most of the dates in the courting stage. Im more traditional that way. But I also believe in having a 2-way street. So, I’m happy to pay for and plan things once we’ve been seeing each consistently.

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