Wife has domestic charges and now wants me to leave the home? Have a new project starting up soon. Wife wants to mediate separation agreement soon until her criminal case is resolved. Advice?

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Wife has domestic charges against her?

'family violence' - hit me and got arrested.

I've always heard the advice to never leave the family home. It sets a precedent what normal is. And judges will want to keep things as "normal" and you may lose parenting time. (caveat I'm still learning about the process)

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