Working Moms

I would love to have 3 or more kids…is that realistic with working? I have 2 kids 2 and under now 🤪

Yesterday: positive pregnancy test
Today: get laid off
8 days from now: going to Disney with our 2yo

I know getting laid off right before I give birth/while I’m out on mat leave/right when I get back would also be t… more

I just got laid off. I have three kids four and under. I am going to try and not work for the next 1-2 years but it will be tight. This means saying goodbye to our wonderful nanny who’s been with us f… more

Feel like I am making a career suicide and I am very worried. I currently work with one of the top payment company in the world. I recently got an offer with another smaller company but same industry.… more

If you were undecided on having another kid, how did you decide? Did you end up “knowing” eventually or just let life take its course?

We have a 2 y/o and an 8 mo old infant, and are debating if we wan… more

My 12 month old still only drink her bottle of its warm? How long did it take your little one to drink a cold bottle? Lol!

Potential bully situation - my 7 year old son has told me multiple times that one kid in his friend group of 4 is always talking about “banning” my son from the group, because my son likes K-pop demon… more

If I can afford private school, am I doing my child a disservice by sending her to public school? My child is in 1st grade in our local public school, which by all accounts, is a good public school. … more

Is there any hope to find a 2 day a week remote job if my background is in finance and accounting? I make very good money right now but it means nothing to me being away from my baby. I’ve seen health… more

I have a job I love and has given me flexibility with my kids. Recently, there are mumblings of further RTO and no one knows what flexibility will look like. I received a remote offer for more money. … more

Venting: In Asia Pacific, we are expected to attend evening calls. Last night my son upchucked all over his mattress while I was nursing the baby and I missed one evening call. My husband was also wor… more

Potty trained my 2 year old a month ago and she’s suddenly so stressed about pooping that she tries to hold it in. She had no problem at all then this started out of nowhere. Anyone have insights or a… more

Came back from maternity and have been asked to basically step down and do the work I was formerly leading my team in doing. There’s been some reorganization and my previous role and team has been dis… more

First trimester nausea and smell sensitivity is kicking me so bad. Tips for hiding it at work? I’m also hungry for salty snacks every two hours. Only five months into a leadership job and I don’t wan… more

How do you know that you want more than one kid ? What are the biggest factors you consider when deciding? Folks who have more than one - what was your experience like transitioning from 1 to 2?

Can anyone tell me ballpark ranges for what a nanny might be paid per hour for watching one kid (toddler), as well as two kids (baby and toddler)? Living in Denver, CO for reference, so not the most H… more

I brought my 3 year old for soccer and he refused to try it. He stood on the sidelines the entire time and then once it was over threw a tantrum because he wanted to play. He’s been in daycare since h… more

Going on a flight with 5month old this weekend for the first time and I *think* we’ve got it all sorted but would take your suggestions and advice!

We will be checking stroller and car seat at the gate bc we don’t… more

Mamas - do you have any minivan reviews, either positive or negative? We are looking at the Honda Odyssey or the Kia Carnival, but open to feedback about those cars or any other minivan.

What are some cool ideas that would be useful for parents for perhaps birthday parties that we could make and rent out? Looking for some side hustle ideas.

Does anyone here have any tips for keeping pacifiers from dropping out of baby’s crib? Don’t want to do a paci attached to a stuffed animal or a mesh bumper, because neither are considered safe, but I… more

HOW do toddlers have a sixth sense for knowing you're about to get rid of a toy they haven't touched in FOREVER. If I even start thinking about making a toy disappear in the night, that suddenly becomes … more

I did diapers and wipes for my friend’s baby shower. Im now going to see her baby who’s a month old - do i do diapers again? Feels repetitive. What’s best. PS baby no 2 so already got loads of clothes

When did you transition your baby from drinking breastmilk or formula from a bottle to a sippy cup/ cup with straw?

I have just received a great offer from a tech company. I noticed in my contract that the working hours are listed as 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. As a working mum, I need to pick up my child from nursery, … more

I’m feeling very guilty since I got laid off (while on baby bonding time no less 😑😒) I am H U S T L I N G and networking and emailing and basically applying to everything while the baby is down for her naps. more

Carryon suitcase recommendation? Have a lot of upcoming work travel and I’m terrible at “packing light” would love a carry on size that is great at fitting in multiple shoes etc 😬. I’ve been getting … more

I plan on trying for VBAC, and my doctor said we can attempt this, but because I didn't dilate enough for birth #1, I may need another c-section.

My first c-section was traumatic. My blood pressure went throug… more

Hi all. My son just turned three- he’s still sleeping in a sleep sack and crib (has made no move to climb out) do I need to start forcing him to sleep without a sack? He’s pretty attached to it, and I… more

I just got an offer for £77,000, up from my current £52,000. Right now, I work remotely on £52,000 and have a good work-life balance. I’m having cold feet about the new offer. I also have a toddler an… more

Did anyone have what looked like a period then a preg test was positive? I just got a very definite double line on a test. But last week I had what I thought was my period. Cramping, had to take some … more

Working mums, paid for one job but not the other, right?! This can often as you well know, lead to overwhelm and burnout - so we are building a one stop shop of tools and resources in the Burnout Bowl tha… more

Ranking my experience with pumping bras so you don’t have to:

1- kindred bravely sleep bra
2- momcozy pumping bra
3- kindred bravely pumping sports bra
4- kindred bravely hands free pumping bra

The attachm… more

Can I just say while I'm grateful to barely have the means to pay for a nanny for my baby I do not enjoy it?

It was the same with my first, I felt so much calmer when she went to daycare at 2. No … more

Anyone suffering from perimenopause? I think I have it. I've been dealing with off-and-on brain fog, fatigue, mood swings, and more for over three months. Already on thyroid meds that are presumably balanced … more

I’m currently a program coordinator for a small team. I currently make roughly $50k. In my role I have implemented 2 marketing initiatives: email and event. I just floated the idea of a new position o… more

I’m a product director. I’m 50, have twin boys that are 13. I am ready to move up and these specific roles I am interested are either in NYC or Seattle and I am in ATL. Don’t want to relocate family t… more

My husband is starting at IBM soon and has the Benefits guide. We see that there is a Bright Horizon benefit but there’s also mention of additional childcare/after school care discounts on Benespace. … more

I expected pregnancy to be hard, but I don’t think anything could have prepared me for how tough it has been. I’m entering my second trimester and am still so exhausted and nauseous. I feel hungover a… more