2020 just feels so full of despair so far. It's taking a toll on my mental health. How you all coping?

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Why do you let it affect you so much

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You could have kept this comment.

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By working more hours, and not letting my mind to waver on topics I cannot control..

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Definitely healthy!

Unfortunately the year is only going to get worst. Try and focus on all the good things in your life and treasure what you have. If you feel like you don’t have much to be thankful for, than set goals and focus on attaining the goals. You control your own happiness and can do this!

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Love the gratitude angle!

Try taking up a new hobby or pastime :) doesn’t have to be something intense and you don’t have to be good at it! Just something you can dedicate time to and something to break away from the normal routine. I’ve been playing tennis after work lately and it’s really helped!

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Point taken. 👍

Yup couldnt agree more, its shaping out to be a terrifying year, better bring out the good whiskey

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What you got in the liquor cabinet?

Why full of despair? Are you worrying about things you cannot control?

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I started playing volleyball at my local gym! I’ve met a lot of really nice people and have gotten marginally better, but most importantly, I’m always really excited to go and play

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Do you guys feel like your firm make an effort on supporting employee's mental well-being?

No.

Yes I’m constantly anxious

Worry about the things I can control, prepare for the things I can’t. If I can’t control or prepare, then trying breathing and self hypnosis to let it go esp before bedtime.

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