3 weeks ago marks the first time in my entire life that I don't have toxic people in my life. I'm now surrounded by compassionate, fun, interesting people and my life is a million times better. Not enough to want me to hang on but I never thought it would be possible to have only kindness in my life. Although I won't be able to pay rent going forward and my car is under repossession, I still wanted to mark this moment in my life. I never truly thought I deserved it.

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happy for you, hope things work out with rent and car

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