3rd year pi associate here: does anyone else experience nightmares and occasional anxiety attacks from their more brutal cases?
I’ve handled some fatalities and catastrophic injuries, and was doing well to compartmentalize the gruesome input as “work stuff” so as not to internalize it. But lately getting to know the clients, reviewing HWY fatality packets & collecting pictures of mangled bodies- dead & alive-has me waking up in a panic sometimes.

Open to suggestions or at least validation😅

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I have not had the issue with nightmares but I have a terribly dark sense of humor and, if anything, I feel like the work has made me less sympathetic toward people's misfortunes. I do agree with the other poster though that working in this business has made me pretty paranoid. I avoid jet skis, ATVs, motorcycles, and about a million other things because I'm acutely aware they'll probably kill me. And, I think everything wrong with me is cancer or some obscure terrible illness. On the upside, I'm the world's best patient. I never miss a follow up or a test. 😉

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I've become more desensitized to gruesome photos, but I do feel the stress in making sure that I manage their cases well. They're entrusted us with a big responsibility in getting justice for their injuries, and any small mess up might feel a lot bigger than it really is.

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Yes, absolutely. We have a heavy burden to shoulder but, it’s also tremendously rewarding to see the clients’ face light up when justice is done.

Nothing like having a panic attack while sleeping! What you’re experiencing is normal & is likely due to you internalizing your clients pain and loss. Empathy can be a gift & also a curse. Talking to others helped me.

I’ve also learned some coping strategies over the years, one of which was never working from home with idea that I didn’t want to bring that pain & emotional baggage around my family. obviously that’s tough these days, but having clear lines between work and home are helpful.

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That would probably be a wise idea- I sometimes find myself doing some of the “drone work” at home of sorting and organizing files so isolating that from my space could help.
Thanks!

I did some plaintiffs work and defense in Med mal for years. Those issues went away for me by year 3, but during my first couple years out I definitely felt that way. You’ll eventually get used to it and just be able to compartmentalize. However, I was a basket case when my wife was delivering my son and needed an emergency c section. Every birth injury case came rushing into my head and that was the first anxiety attack of my life.

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Other than the hilarious stories I’ve been given by clients I had 2-4 cases that stick with me because of how they turned out

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