4 year-old pinches kids ears to the point of bleeding/laughs when they cry. We have tried everything; time out, safe space, replacement behaviors, telling him to touch gentle. At my wits end!!!

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Have you tried some type of sensory tool that has a similar effect like a squishy ball?

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Here and there but I definitely need to make a giant container full so that I can really get a sense of his preferences. Thank you so much I appreciate that thought!

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Social Story? Can you change routine or environment to break the “loop” or cycle. Can you do positive reinforcement for being safe/kind? I think the rule is if it happens every 10 minutes you should reinforce positive behavior 2or 3 times per 10 minutes.

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I had a student who was mean to other kids and I figured out that he legit had no idea how to interact with him. I wrote a social story explaining about good friends vs bad friends and it seemed to help a lot. Maybe you could do something similar if that’s what happening with this kiddo

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Have you done a functional behavior analysis to ID his motivation/antecedent of behavior?

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Have you communicated with parents? It would help to know if the same behavior is being displayed at home and if so, how are parents dealing with it.

Block, reinforcing appropriate behavior, replacement behaviors with squeezing ball, social stories... schedule time to for sensory... make sure to check to see if he is trying to avoid... dis you do a functional assessment?

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