Anyone been single for 5 years now?

Gay/Bi men looking for virtual fun rn?

Any good drinks spots for a date night? Something with a frozen fruit drink or craft cocktails?

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

Single 🐟 joining business school in the fall... is dating within your class/cohort considered bad practice?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

34M looking to move to an area with other singles in their 30s. Currently in the UES but looking to move out for a change in scene.

30 M seeking a 30 and up F. Looking for a casual conversation and maybe going out to dinner one day.

Serious question: I’m too culturally Korean to be a marketable product in the US dating market. I’m too culturally American to be marketable in the Korean dating market. What do I do?

Who’s around tonight for a fun time? M searching for F

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

If you aren’t straight, was there a public figure that made you realize this? My first memorable girl crush was Nigella Lawson, a British celebrity chef nearly twice my age.

Anyone in search of dating / LTR?

I’m 26, 5’10” (prefer same height or taller), Libra, live in Manhattan, have a dog, drink socially, socially active but not a working out kind of person/super fit (dad bod), full time professional, live alone, have goals, ambivert, side ↘️

Feel free to HMU. 😊

Need to kind of just runaway somewhere for the summer for mental health reasons…any recommendations on a place where it’s easy to meet people?

Anyone know a place to safely meet other kinksters?

Any ladies in DC want to meet up? I just moved here and looking for love, friends, and everything in between. 33M with a job and a pulse.

36F in Houston, Tx. New to the area and looking for friends.

i have cgi bangalore 9 LPA and alsyp enquero inc bangalore 9 lpa. which to choose?

How much should a senior manager specializing in State and Local Tax working at a top 10 PA firm with 15 years of experience be making? Any thoughts?

Hi Fishes,

If the TSC HR generates offer letter for me , I accept the offer & later in the joining date decide to not join TCS, will I be blacklisted from joining the company again like an ex-TCSr is blocked from joining TCS>?

Hello, please help me to decide, which one is better? Toronto: 100k CAD or Berlin: 68k Euro- both are before tax only. It would be helpful if anyone can give an idea about the in hand salary and the cost living for a couple in these cities. Thanks in advance!

Anyone switched from consular processing to change of status to activate their H1B? If yes, could you pls share when and how(i.e. if you had a ppmd looped in) you reached out to the law firm. My worm authorization is set to expire in 6 months and travel to home country is risky..

How long after your i140 approval can you quit the company? Is it 180 days from date of i140 filling?

Alright everyone, I’m on my exit path from Big D and looking for someone to take the bowl leader spot. Pls DM me if you are interested. Thank you

What is the current compensation band for Salesforce Developers/Architect with 10 YOE?

I want a review for netcracker. Have an offer from mastercard 30.8 L (28 fixed and 2.8 variable) +1 L bonus
And Netcracker offering 32fixed in along with free transport and food coupans. Also told they are working on latest tech stack
Mastercard is not ready to revise offer
Shall I choose netcracker in this case?
Position Java backend dev with 8.7y exp


Position java backend dev
Exp 8.7y

Where could I go to request a national union to bring a representative to my SD, anonymously?

If I take extended sick leave, i.e. 3 months, do future employers look at this? I want to take a break from ACN because of burnout, but dont want it to be an issue if I change roles in the next year or so?

can anyone help me with standard package for Customer success manager/ key account manager salary. I have 2 years of experience. Need to know what can I expect for this role.

Hi all,
How much one should get for 6years of experience with Java backend with microservice and hibernate ?

Hello Everyone. I just wanted to ask what's the salary of a 4.5 years experience developer in Siemens technology and services. I just want to if i am underpaid or not.please help me out

Best late night audit room jams to keep the team going?

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Welcome to the 30s and 40s singles bowl! Here’s to hoping the posts in this bowl are a bit more mature. Relying on the honor system here, try not to lie about your age.

30M based in nyc. Any F ready for casual dating? Happy to DM if interested.

Any F in Minnesota?

36F in Houston, Tx. New to the area and looking for friends.

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

Is this an active bowl..Or have the 30s fishes turned 40s already?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Question for F🐠. Someone asks you to keep them company via text, social media, maybe a phone call sometime etc. You'll be payed to do this. Would you do it? And what are your terms?

Who here has actually made a genuine connection from being in this group? Let’s hear your stories 🍵

Any houston folks here?

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.