Anyone ever get a post-nup? We were going to prenup but honestly just got so caught up with wedding planning we never went through with it.

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Would love to now tbh

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We were broke when we got married and had no saving accounts. I have been thinking about getting a post-nup, since my husband love to complain about my earnings. My husband is delusional he says he is okay with me making more money than him and complain all the times about me having more money in the bank than him. He always joke around about me sending him half the money in my saving account. I know he is serious about it. Sometimes, he randomly talked about he took a backseat to allow me to earn more which is untruth. We both have been working at our companies for the same length of time and when he started working there he was making more money than me. I got promoted a few years ago and started earning more than him.

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Yikes, those are some big red flags. Honestly, if it were me, I would have got that postnup yesterday (...or rethink the relationship entirely).

Actually, post-nup must be in trend

We are considering it now

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