Hey sweet ladies, C (26 male) this side. Hope you are keeping safe and healthy!

About me? People usually say I am their go to person for when they need emotional support, advise about relationships and when they feel low, maybe because I help them cheer up again and be the ear they need.

I am a great listener too. I can go on listening to you if you feel low, won't say a word until you are finished, will hold your hand when you are done and try to bring your sweet smile back!
Contd in cmnts-

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

Dropped off my kids to school this morning and just felt unsettled. It’s so hard to concentrate on work today.

I think my parents need therapy but being Indian parents they don’t believe in therapy. Has anyone had any success in convincing their parents to go? Is it too late because of their age?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

Has anyone quit their job because of a relationship? I started my job 3 months ago and now my employer wants me to move to NY. The thing is, I fell in love during the pandemic with a friend that I have known for 3 years. It's frustrating since I know I could continue my job from home. I would honestly quit my job and wouldn't mind the job search again.

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

30 year old male daddy hunter. Slide into my DMs if you’ll be my father figure until the end of time.

AITA: My friend keeps asking me for financial advice. I set up a budget for her and have her concrete advice. And I field all of her investing questions. But still, she continues to be reckless with her money. She’s 42, single (no kids), and making $100k+ and is still living check to check.

I don’t want to waste my breathe on helping her since nothing seems to be getting through to her. AITA?

Anyone else juggling having kids at home during the winter break and trying to work from home around your SO (who is also working from home). The holidays are always SO hectic at my place and I'm feeling like a failure, my mother was a perfect housewife and I'm far from it lol. Other parents struggling with this?

My wife and I are both terrible housekeepers and our clutter is overwhelming us. We have two kids under 3 and a wonderful nanny but we need more help at home. How do we throw money at this problem? Where do we start to get ongoing professional help decluttering, organizing, cleaning, etc.? What has worked for you?

Any suggestions for getting kids to do homework? Sped Math 6th grade high need area - I cannot get these kids to turn in hw. Anyone agree with the idea of allowing class time for HW? I am at a loss

Do any female desis who are married take care of their own parents?

Question: Girl friends parents finally came over for a ristha. Everything went great or so I thought but now she wants to time to think about moving forward. The pain point she brought up is that we are in different states and she is feeling pressed. Although in that time she has started communicating less and I literally had to beg her to get on face time. My gut says she wants to end it but unsure. Any advice ? It's been 2 weeks since this event

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

My husband does not show affection openly and is quite lazy in bed, and I thought I could deal with it because I love him, but it’s really really beginning to annoy me. For example, he refuses to do any foreplay and basically asks that I get on top of him most of the time when we have have sex- if I push him to do anything else he basically just refuses to have sex at all as some sort of ‘protest’. I am finding myself fantasising about an affair more and more

To those with an anxious attachment style and have trust issues due to past childhood trauma you’re still healing from: How do you keep yourself from thinking your significant other is going to cheat on you when she/he goes to a party or out while you’re miles away? I’ve been in therapy to help, and trying to distract myself but my anxiety is keeping it from working and don’t want to put that pressure on him because I’m trying to work on it.

What is the salary range for lateral entry employees who has 8 + years of experience? Role is level 9 and Technology stack is pega.

A toxic co-worker tried to throw me under the bus to cover their mistake in a call with leadership 😢😢. I showed the proof of conversation the next moment without hesitation to everyone. Suddenly their tone changes and tries to divert the topic 😒😒. I am distraught 🙁🙁

Hi Fishes,
What is the impact on rating and overall, if I have got all snapshots good but for one snapshot its like at level for 4 parameters and 1 parameter partially demonstrated at level and have got a development action on that. Can you please advise on what will be the repurcussions and how to deal with this situation as the CRT are round the corners. Thanks in advance!PwC

I am currently an HR professinal of 3 years with past background as a teacher/advisor in higher ed. I am aiming to pivot to a more L&D, training specialist type role in order to leverage the skills obtained in both areas. It would be the perfect career for me. Any openings or hiring at your company? I am not super concerned about the title as long as there is room for growth and I can pay for my 3 kids' daycare tuitions. ;)

Is it a good idea to quit your full time job to start your own hustle without fully knowing what that will be like?

What social media platforms do you think is best for consumer retention/interaction when starting out a handmade clothing line? & why?

Does anyone want a ticket to the Mets/Phillies game

Is there anything not masculine about pop sockets? I love them since I don’t like cases and it helps grip the phone on the train and jogging. Plus I love using it as a stand. However, I don’t really see other guys using them.

Hello friend,

Any one abscond the notice period in EY.


I Just join - 3 month.

Any one can help me for same what get happened if I do same.

Thanks for you advise

Hey Bdo, does your current annual salary that shows up on myBdo also shows your bonus amount? Or just the salary increase?

Anyone done Invisalign recently? How was your experience and was it worth it? How long did you have then for?

Hey 👋 is it advisable to invest in real estate / buying my first home with all the looming uncertainty with brexit ?

Hi , any idea how is TCS AWS unit ? Is development project opportunity there?

Anyone wants go for drinks in the evening? New to SF and would like to explore new bars and clubs.

For 7 year exp Python Developer, how much Walmart will pay, Do I have to counter any offers or they will pay as per their slab . My current is below 10 lpa.

Is this bowl still active? 😂

Where are all the Singles? 🥹

No post, nothing ! Valentine mil gyi kya ?

Everybody !! Sab ke sab committed hai saale 😏

Kisiki baat hui kisi se? Considering weekend chal raha hai 😄

Hello.
Anyone up for a chat?
I am a A (M)

Wrote a small poem (which i feel) for first time 🙂

My standard of sweetness is your voice
My standard of perfection is your face
My standard of happiness is your presence
All the above are lies 😂

Will continue writing depending on your reacts

People mentioning their genders first, as if this the chat section of Omegle. 😂

Because we all need some peace right now...

His candystick is my pacifier
far better for my teeth than
the ones that cause cavities
albeit a bit too big I admit
nevertheless it fits and
I am immediately at peace
whenever it's in my mouth.

~ Pacifier

Any f zser here? Lets chat

Any F zser here? Let’s chat…?

Admin bhai availability hai to mere project pe aaja please

Thanks Admin for listening to us and glad that you took up this initiative!! Hoping you don't prey on our hard earns (partner)!! 😂

New joiner in this bowl, concept kya hai? Right swipe ka option nahi dikh rha 😂

What the world lacked were the liberal eyes,
To see the magic inside her that lies.
Wanting to be revealed,
Like lightening piercing the sky.
- Source: old notes section in phone.

Anyone up for a chat? M here looking for M 😛

Koi single hai bhi yaha pr ? Lagta toh nhi hai. Lagta mai akela hi hu.

Hello Ladies. Let's talk! 😊
27(C) M here.

Love is apples
but not oranges
its cyanide seeds
will kill if you eat
one too many
sometimes it’s
dark chocolate
and you’re a
golden retriever
wanting relief.

~ Apples, oranges and chocolates