Back to day 0. Chasing 237+

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Suggest just chase today. Coming back you pick up close to where you left off and don't discount all the progress and good choices you made during your days of sobriety. They still matter.

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Just focus on staying sober today, and trust me when I say that "losing" 237 days means absolutely nothing to everyone else. It's just your ego telling you that you are somehow less for starting over. I've known people who relapsed after over a decade, and we are just glad that they and you made it back.

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The one thing that I learned in recovery is, you may be back to day zero, but for 237 (now assuming 240) out of 241 days you didn’t drink. That’s huge! As a teacher you got a 99.6% on one of the most difficult tests you will encounter. Keep it going!

Cheers!

Thanks all. I haven’t gotten to 237 in two years it’s been two to four weeks then a relapse. Can’t seem to get over the hump. Also I have a SA so p/m…

Are you working with a sponsor?

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