Been I'm a new city for almost 3 years now and still haven't made any close friends.

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What city? I’m a big believer in hobbies. Sounds lame, but works well. (glass blowing, pottery, yoga, beekeeping, flower arrangements, gardening, rock climbing, running club, bowling, writing groups.... etc.)

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I made a ton of good friends when I got a dog and started going to the dog run every weekend. Bad reason to get a dog, but if you happen to already have one...

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Are you in LA? I’m part of a creative group of friends

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@VP1 Bay area, recently started getting into a few new hobbies, I think the problem is that I'm also rather introverted/shy

Also really wishing I could edit that typo in my post.

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Same situation here, OP. I’m introverted too and it’s hard putting myself out there - you’re definitely not alone in this

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Meetup app = best thing ever for meeting people.

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OP, I’m on the same boat. It’s tough making new friends, especially when you’re managing a team. People don’t want to hang out with the boss

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Moved here 5 years ago knowing no one. All of my close friends are people I met at work. Today, we work at different agencies , so technically, they’re now “friends” instead of "work friends”

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