Being single in this quarantine is the worst thing ever. This could have been such a fantastic bonding time with our S/O (if only we had one 🤷‍♀️)

It's an everyday torture when you hate your partner. Maybe the feeling is mutual.

How many married professionals with young families are just sticking it out “for the kids”? Marriage is very dead and has been for a while. Young kids 4 and 1. My wife and I don’t fight, but share 0 interests outside of the kids and can’t stand to be around each other. I’m so ready to leave… I just can’t bear the thought of doing it to my children even though another part of me feels like wife and I would both be better parents if our lives were separate. Anyone else done a similar analysis?

How to deal with parents that want to know everything but you don’t want to tell them everything because you want to loose your job?

How long did you date your SO before moving in with them?

Anyone want to get together/get to know each other? Md/partner type here

Hadn’t noticed this sub before, and most of the threads are old so thought I’d ask a follow up - how has everyone been handling parenting with public accounting? I’ve got a toddler and my wife is an accountant (industry), and we only have a few immediate family in the country- but they have health concerns. Busy season was rough, things are looking better now as things return to normal. Still working crazy hours if you count the daycare duties on top of utilization targets.

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff

Trying to set family expectations and would love thoughts on 2 things. 1. How long after baby will I be ready for visitors beyond our parents? I’m thinking a few weeks. 2. Our 3 grandmothers are 1-3 hour flights away (3 diff places) and cannot travel. When will we be ready to take baby to see them? I’m thinking 4-6 months but that would also be flu/RSV season. Can’t predict the future but family is already talking about trips and I want to set expectations and do what is best for baby. TIA!!

Starting at PwC next year... newly married (Husband) with a kid on the way. How's life going to be with a newborn as a new associate? I'm older (30) and went back to school for my CPA if that matters.

The death of my best friend in combat will forever haunt me, no matter how hard I want to accept it and let it go. I've been remembering every day since I came back. It's so hard to deal with this on my own.

Has science shaped the way you care for yourself and/or your family?

Looking to move to San Antonio and we're looking at places in Alta Vista and El Dorado. Pros and cons? We have two kids under five, so looking for a nice family community with good schools.

F*****-up story…please be constructive (but also open & direct)
With my wife for 14 years, 2 kids under 8y - both under a lot of pressure bc Covid/work/private life/… and have been (unconsciously) running away from our couple not working “since a long time” (dixit my wife). We want to try and fix it, but I also met someone new (not sure if she would even want me) and wondering if it’s worth fixing it (since we are trying/running/avoiding it for years) - just worried about the kids…any advice

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Came here to say that I wish I could fully express to my non-parent colleagues how much their support has meant to me. I can cover for them when they have stuff so they can unplug, but I feel like they will never truly understand the gratitude when they offer to do a task for me when my kid is sick, etc. Any ideas on how to pay it forward?

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

Hi Fishes, What is the fixed ctc band for SC2 at EY GDS SC&O. Also, how are the levels tracked for progression for a given designation (SC2 to SC3).

Please respond if someone knows about it.
EY

I got the mail where i need to upload the document for processing.but in mindtree home page i am not able to see any upload option.could you please help guys.should i sent the document in that mail?

Guys, just want to hear your opinion on something/ what a guy would think ): my husband and I rarely argue but we recently have argued a lot more for little things. (See comment)

To the lender counsel that forgot to mention they needed original signature pages for a deal that closed early this year and decided to chase and harass me a day before thanksgiving and a day after thanksgiving multiple times. F*ck you. I don’t know what is driving your lack of courtesy but I have represented the same bank before and know their usual original signature requirement.

Anyone else feeling like everything is on a one week delay? I’m barely getting through my days

A long post: seeking some perspective. My husband of 2 years that I’ve been in a relationship with for more than 8 years just woke up one day and told me that he’s unhappy in our relationship. I’m devastated because he’s never expressed anything like this in the 8 years. He’s been super supportive and loving, even when we were in a long distance relationship. He supported my career and dreams and this just doesn’t make sense. We have gotten a counselor but things aren’t getting better. Comment>

Hey
I have investment in crypto and as per kpmg policies we cant hold it. Can anyone please tell is there any way of holding the same and not getting caught.

Hearing and seeing a lot about how McKinsey have messed up at bp... why are they still paying them?

Which PR is easier to get Canada or uk? Yoe- 5 domain - ux design education from India only.

Hi Fishes
Having 3.6 years of experience in SAP ABAP. How much package can I expect. Looking for a job change. Any referral would be appreciated. Already Servicing Notice Period.
LWD : AUG 29

At some point in our careers, we've been affected by imposter syndrome, even if you want to call it something else. Would love to hear how you dealt with it... What helped you "feel" more confident in your abilities?

What are ways to deal with high latency mricroservice in a given region. Given that it's Cpu utilization is not exhausted.. So no vertical scaling ???

My father had a sever case of Covid and he made it out successfully. I’m very grateful for this. Close to a year down the line, I’m finding that he is having severe memory loss issues and can’t remember significant details. Has anyone experienced or is experiencing this? How have y’all dealt with it?

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Hello Everyone,
I am actively looking for job change but not getting any relevant opportunities from various job search sites.If there is any open position for data/business analyst at your organization then please help me with referral.
I am currently having 1.3 years of experience as a Data analyst.

Thanks.

Any single F in Edison, NJ up for a casual coffee date and hanging out maybe ( since everyone here seems to be married, wtf🤬 ).
I’m a single M 27, Interested in movies and road trips. 🚘

23/M in Toronto for over a year now. Let's connect!

This bowl is dead!
Leaving 😬

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!

26 F Gujarati, looking for someone in Chicago!

Any gyals in Toronto?

28M moved to Munich. Any F from DE or EU interested to connect please DM.

Anyone in the Bay Area? M here

Any Female Fishes in Bay Area?

Anyone in Bay Area for the holidays? 29M

Anyone around Columbus area want to hangout?

28M Sikh in LI/NYC area, looking to make any friends!

I wish I had someone to cuddle with in this beautiful white weather! 😢 (for context: 29M)

Any F🐠 here based in LA or SoCal? 30’s M, looking for a genuine connection.
Pakistani Muslim, liberal, not exclusive to religion or nationality

Desi singles, any plans for thanksgiving weekend ?

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

I am 39 F. Based in US. Looking for a person over age 39 and living in US - any state. If you are looking for a match let's connect.

Who’s up? M 30

What do you do when you meet someone who absolutely loves some bollywood movie you find cringe. Help 😒

Saw a post in the confession bowl so I wanted to check this bowl out. Any hot, smart, rich and single guys in this bowl?😁