Queer Gals & Non-Binary Pals (And More!)

Bi girl here doing online dating. I always get SO many matches with guys, but barely any with girls (I’m only looking for women too). Whys this happening - any thoughts?

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Get on Lex — it’s a new text-based queer dating app for anyone who’s not a cis man

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Yessss personals level up 🙌🏾

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What app are you on? Also, as a femme presenting woman, I sometimes find it hard for people to read me as queer depending on the photo/context. It helped me when I leaned in to the visibility part—maybe assess your photos and throw in more gay sparkle—pride photos, outdoorsy stuff, maybe throw something in the bio? The struggle is real but the girls are def out there

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Thanks for the reply! I’m on Hinge and Bumble. I am thinking this too, leaning towards the bio thing since I don’t have any good pride pics. Could you give me a suggestion of what to have? Currently just have the rainbow flag so I’m thinking I can do more there

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Experienced the same thing as you when i was looking and got tired, so ended up limiting it to women only to see more options.

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Same here. I still find myself comparing things now to when I used to look for men too. It’s such a huge difference

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^Same as K1

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