Bi girl here doing online dating. I always get SO many matches with guys, but barely any with girls (I’m only looking for women too). Whys this happening - any thoughts?

Hear a lot about power couples... accomplished professionals attracting one another yet I just don't see it. Is this an urban dating myth?

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

Could anyone suggest a good ladies pg in Marathalli area? Preferably single sharing or double.

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

I’m scared I’ll end up being alone. I’ve truly enjoyed being single all this time but as time passes by, I keep thinking to myself that something must be wrong with me that I’m not in a relationship. I also don’t feel confident being on dating apps since I gained weight during the pandemic (about 30 lbs). I’m holding off on dating until I get into better shape but I’ll be 27 by then and I feel like I’ll be too old to put myself out there.

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Can’t wait for Saturday to come so that my date and I can Netflix and chill, then having him sleeping over and I waking up next to him. Miss his warmth and miss giving and receiving cuddles. I like the feeling of having certain people making you behave in a more tender way. I’ve been literally longing for that moment for the week as I’m on a boring PMO case. Romance is not lost between gay guys! :)

What is this bowl for? Married but looking? Success story?

Genuine question - why do people slide into DMs on here? Why would you spend time trying to get to know someone when there’s like a 1% chance you’re in the same geographical area and would have mutual interest in each other? Is it not better to spend your time on tinder or bumble to find people that are guaranteed to be nearby if you’re bored?
Edit: I mean DMs that are not platonic/networking 🙃

Looking for a gay woman on the east coast (yes I have given up on confining my option only to my city). I’m a clean person, funny, a good chef, good in bed and just overall wholesome. Bonus points if you are a top.

32 M in the Bay Area and bored in quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

Good first date spots in East Village? Tips on how to make it a good date?

I have a wee crush on one of the partners in my firm and I thought he liked me too, but neither of us did anything about it (which is entirely appropriate). That was all pre-Rona. Now I’m leaving the firm and pursuing another opportunity and staying in the same city. Since he’ll no longer be my boss, is there a way to find out if my feeling was correct? How should I go about this? (Especially given Rona?)

Ladies qq - how do you feel about tattoos on a guy?? (Either a guy you’re dating seriously or just casually - doesn’t matter)

I live in queens and I’m going on a date with someone who lives downtown. Should we meet in midtown? I’m a little nervous to take the train alone at night. Is it unreasonable to ask him to come to queens? I live by a LIRR stop

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Pretty sure I’m about to be fired. I have an offer in hand anyway and have been on a few interviews that have gone well, and a few more lined up. Am I gonna be ok?

How has P&T been affected by recessions in the past ? Are internal app teams more safe ? Also how is the severance package calculated.

Any word on layoffs at JPM?

Hi Fishes, I have 6 YOE in financial reporting, if an opportunity in Morgan Stanley in fund accounting arises, should I go ahead with it or would it be a reverse step career wise, would appreciate insights on same and also of MSFS Fund accounting culture, WLB, if anyone can help with the same...
Should I take Financial Reportting @State Street or Fund Accounting at @Morgan Stanley
Thanks in advance, would appreciate your help

Hi Fishies, I have got offer from Salesforce for Success engineer role. But I am working as a Salesforce developer. I do have a offer of Salesforce developer role from Deloitte. Can anyone please help me about the role and responsibilities of support role? Will it be good idea to switch from developer to support role? My YOE is 2.6.

Hi everyone,
I have 2+ years experience with Salesforce, before Salesforce I was a full-stack dev with some DevsOps experience. I worked for Finance Services and Oil & Gas companies. Right now, I wanted to make a switch to Aviation, Aerospace or Defense company. I’m in Texas, specifically Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex. I would really appreciated if someone can help point me to that direction.

Translation posted for a Business Manager on LinkedIn yesterday if anyone is looking.

Stupid me thought Accenture is different. Like any other consulting firm, some MDs literally gave away their soul to the devil once you got promoted.

How did you get the courage to come out? I’m too scared

I have a job offer in Australia and the company is offering to apply for a TSS visa for me. But they can't give me any idea on timeline. I've heard anything from a month to 9 months. Has anyone here gone through this and knows how long it would take during Covid times?

I have been promised a promotion three times now, but when the time comes, I'm told I'm not there yet. Why promise something if you clearly don't want to execute it?

I'm looking for referral in hcl. Is any vacancies related to Informatica power center then please refer

Hello fishes,
I have 5 years of experience. I have received offer letter for IN3 role (java developer) with 22LPA(fixed)+variable(4)+joining bonus(2)..Is this good package or are they lowballing me..?? Should i try for counter offer… will they increment in case of counter offer??

Oprah for president???? If a fake show celebrity can be a president then why not Oprah who has a real show. She has more brain power than the stuntman in chief.

Are we allowed to have a side business (not accounting related) while working for big4?

May not be the right bowl but I need insights. Guy likes me and vice versa, was over at my place helping with something, had a huge erection but said or did nothing. I can’t figure out why..

Hello Fishs,

I have given 3 rounds of interview for the position of Lead SE. Now Hoping to go for Salary discussion round if 3rd round feedback comes positive.

What salary should i expected for Lead SE role in Gartner. Before the interview i quoted them between 31-34L and told them will be flexible on negotiation.

Any good gated communities near Taramami office ?

Looking for a place to stay

What happens if i didn't attend the 2nd day of the virtual onboarding session in infosys .

Happy National Coming Out Day y’all!

FORM50 fitness? Anyone familiar with them? Looks kind of like power Pilates. They only have a New York (Astoria) studio and a Miami studio. Seems like most of the classes are mostly women, and hot pink themes all around. 🏳️‍⚧️🙋🏻‍♀️ and on hrt for about 18 months, so not presenting full time yet. Whether I present female or male, it’s not an environment I’m likely to pass super well in so wondering about how lgbt welcoming it will be. Also if the workout is as lit as people seem to represent.

Trans peeps, especially those not yet socially transitioned, what are you doing for tdov?
🏳️‍⚧️🙅🏻‍♀️

Why do I keep falling for women who live hundreds of miles away from me😓😓😓

Hey everyone, how are we all doing? 🏳️‍🌈🦄🧜🏾‍♀️

Hi ! Anyone is Orlando this week? 🙋🏻‍♀️ here .

Anyone here attending Out & Equal next week? ☺️

Checking in, how is everyone holding up?

Stone Butch Blues. Read it for the first time this summer. So good (albeit controversial).

Hello 👋 Do you want a referral to Accenture? DM me a link to the job post and I’ll be happy to help. 🏳️‍🌈

Lesbian Visibility Day. I was not aware this was a thing. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

Do you feel explicitly femme / butch / futch / stud ? I feel like I’m not femme or butch and I’d be more butch personality wise in a relationship but definitely more of a futch / soft butch physically? Getting a better handle on this might make me better able to find the right folks for me, dating wise... I know some people are super strict about their “type”

Any Indian bi here?

I am having a hard time with the coming out concept. I just talk about whoever I am dating at work with people that I would generally talk about this type of stuff with (1/2)

Any great queer bars in Berkeley/Oakland? Feeling spoiled by Aloho in DC but preparing for a move to the bay and want to check out the scene

Joined a book club and reading Detransition Baby. Seeing myself on literally Every. Single. Page. Thoughts on the book?