Bi girl here doing online dating. I always get SO many matches with guys, but barely any with girls (I’m only looking for women too). Whys this happening - any thoughts?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Any tam brahm single boys? 30 F, eats chicken occasionally and drinks socially.

29M Boston, athletic fit. Looking for something serious. DM me

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

26 F NYC looking for an exclusive buddy 👀

What are the best bars to organically meet someone? Apps just aren’t cutting it anymore (29 yo female)

Does anyone know of a good dating app? I have tried using Hinge, which I thought is designed for people to date and not to hook-up. However, everyone I chatted with is asking for pics like they would on Grindr…is that just our culture?

Is anyone interested in connecting over coffee?

I was wondering how do other trans and non binary people find their boo.. the dating apps seem unreal and in person events are not that frequent.. DM me

Any ladies in Chicago this week? Would love to meet for dinner and/or drinks (Black female)

Hi there! Newbie here. Single woman, 45 in Chicago. What is everyone doing to keep socially active? Anybody actually dating?

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

Any 🐠es interested in having a meet up this month?

My CW was a NIGHTMARE to work with until I had sex dream about her. Now, I find myself being kind, patient, and jumping to her defense with others talk shit. Weirds me out, but sure made life easier 🤷‍♀️

I’m enjoying my current company, the culture, the work etc.The problem is that I am being paid quite a bit under market. What would be the best way to negotiate a higher salary during year end review?

Hi! I have a very demanding role as a comms director, but still make time to volunteer on the side for some women's organizations I am proud to support. Lately though, the work has been piling up and it's almost as if I have two full-time gigs. I've brought this up as graciously as possible with the orgs, but sometimes I feel I'm being guilted into taking on more work. Best etiquette in this situation? I don't want to leave the roles despite the overwhelm.

Since we returned to office in October, is it appropriate to give holiday gifts to team members?

So there's a lot of chitchat about people being fired/laid off for the wrong reasons but does anyone actually know of someone who got the boot for the right one? I figure that some of these separations must hold some validity

I made a mistake at work yesterday and my boss was being super mean about it. How do I move past this?

Them: What’s Philly like?

Me: Like Gotham City w/o Batman.

Has anyone been to a concert in Camden? Thomas Rhett Friday, looking for any guidance on the venue / parking

Received an offer but it stipulates moving by Jan 2021. How to avoid/negotiate this?

I need to rent a car and drive from NY to PA. Any Cody effective recommendations?

When's the best time to start looking for jobs? Would people say Q1 is when a lot of spots open up?

Need some reacts to activate DM. Please help 🙂

Does your company split data science roles into different practices like data & analytics and software engineering? Does this inhibit collaboration & Where does a data engineer fall?

Any M 40+ in Nairobi? The apps here are not it!

How is ur experience with PS till now when u join.

After how many wears do you usually dry clean your suit jacket, suit pants, and blazer?

STL bbs where you at?

Why do I keep falling for women who live hundreds of miles away from me😓😓😓

Anyone here in Berlin?

I'm visiting next week 🛫 from Copenhagen (Apr 11-14) and would love to meet up for🍺 or ☕️!

Happy international women’s day!

Lesbian Visibility Day. I was not aware this was a thing. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

Hi ! Anyone is Orlando this week? 🙋🏻‍♀️ here .

Trans peeps, especially those not yet socially transitioned, what are you doing for tdov?
🏳️‍⚧️🙅🏻‍♀️

Hey everyone, how are we all doing? 🏳️‍🌈🦄🧜🏾‍♀️

How do you navigate pronouns as nb? I'm extremely tired of being mis-pronouned as her/she. Do you suggest pronouns in email signatures?

Any Indian bi here?

Hi all, my ten-year-old recently informed us that they’re non-binary. I raised my kids on queer culture so I’m actually kinda proud. I’m not non-binary myself though so I don’t know how it feels to be 10 years old and NB. How did you feel at that age? Any advice for a parent?

For the trans and non-binary pals in this bowl - happy trans awareness week 💖💙 to celebrate I hope you are all staying aware of your beautiful selves!

Any women here who have dated both men/women/NB, will to chat to me? i'm currently dating a woman and i'm so confused about something TMI to ask anyone in real life, also I'm not out to many. TIA 💛

Hello 👋 Do you want a referral to Accenture? DM me a link to the job post and I’ll be happy to help. 🏳️‍🌈

Anyone living in Chicago??

Happy National Coming Out Day y’all!

I love the name of this group but also wish it was “out and about”. But also I know that a lot of us aren’t out to the world yet (including myself)