Books to read as a newish manager? I struggle with feeling guilty directing people to do things when they seem busy and expressing disappointment

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Same here, I also struggle to tell people when we have to change direction / have competing priorities. I just feel like Ill be perceived as incompetent

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Tools for titans by Tim Ferris (was given this when made EM) ;)

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