What do you do if your manager hates you but you feel you are doing a good job?

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Sit tight. Also try to get a 1:1 on the books where you can talk about growth, how you're doing, if there are other things you should be working on

Hate is a strong word. Are you having issues on a personal level? Do they constantly ask you to redo work? Is there an issue with your performance that could be identified and solved without too much of a problem? You might be someone who simply takes things really personally.

Why do you think they hate you? Is their opinion of you affecting your perf reviews, are you having to redo a lot of work? Is the critique on your performance justified and maybe you're just having a hard time taking constructive criticism? If you can use the situation to become better definitely focus on areas of improvement from a perf perspective, but if not ignore the haters.

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