Cant focus on work because i met a girl and we are so compatible! Went on many dates and things are great! Cant stop thinking about her and my work is being affected! Advice?

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Man up

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Remember, masturbating is not a crime!

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This is stupid, you sir / madam are stupid

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Set aside a few hours a day. This type of thing is like any obsession, the less you want to think about it, the more it ends up consuming your thoughts. Regiment yourself. Snap a rubber and or something.

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It looks like it's OP's first time falling head over heels for someone. You'll get over it sooner than you think. Enjoy while it lasts

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Woman up.

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Thank you A1 - at least someone here gave an answer

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Smell's like someone is jealous!

Unless you're a chick can't tell by your post

rub one out bud

Grow up

Bone her in the morning and you should be good for the day.

U need to sleep with her to release that tension, what you say Ur thinking about her, well thats what you are thinking about aren't you

😍😍😍😍 this is normal and good for you. Sounds like you are falling in love- enjoy it!

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