Does anyone else get “LinkedIn envy” or is it just me? I’ll be scrolling and see someone I graduated with got promoted to VP, another launched their third startup, someone else posted about a 40% raise. Meanwhile I’m just trying to make it through quarterly reviews, and even though I know it’s all highlight reels, it still makes me feel like I’m falling behind. I’ll admit I’m the average Joe… but do you ever compare your career to what you see on LinkedIn, or have you learned to tune it out?

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Comparison is the thief of joy.

I'm 36M living way beyond the dreams I had 15 years ago. The goal was to get to college then graduate. That's more than most of my family can say. 2011 was still a rough time post recession, so holding a steady job wasn't even realistic for many people then.

Fast forward and now I've got a healthy marriage and two healthy kids, and our HHI is ~$350K, which is PLENTY. I know there are people making more (especially on this app), but I also know people would kill for much of what I've got and it's insulting to my 2011 self to not be grateful for it.

Do I want to earn more? Yes, as does my wife. But I try to cherish everyday because I know my future self will miss these days right now. Our kids, family and friends will age and our health will fade too; money doesn't stop those things. Unless I can learn from others' success, I tune it out because it doesn't matter.

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Who only care about how much money they make or respect anything about how much money they have or make or whatever those people are no one you wanna be around because they have absolutely no idea what it means to be moral or they just are self-centered and do not care about any other people at all because anyone who is at the top and makes a ton of money. They got there because they knew somebody and everybody just implants their friends around them. That’s how it is in every goddamn part of society and I do not respect somebody because of how much money they have I respect them because of their being because of them the way that they carried themselves their work ethic them morale how they are what kind of energy they have in person and how aware they are this surroundings

My whole perspective really changed about 5 years ago when I literally almost died. Now I find my joy through volunteering and enjoying my life. Find something that you care about and share it! It will make you feel good to do it, to share it and encourage others to do the same.

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As we need that

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LinkedIn Envy is real. I try to avoid reading it, very similar to Facebook for me

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I truly do not like LI and stay away from it.
Don’t do that to yourself. Look at yourself, encourage yourself look in your mirror and and tell yourself good things about you. Don’t be envious of others just be happy for them and move on. It’s alright to be the average joe. Be happy in your own skin, your own career, don’t do comparisons that is going down a dark tunnel. Stay away from it. You do you and let others do themselves. You have enough on your plate and life without considering their life advancements or failures. Keep your focus on you. That is where it belongs.

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I get on LinkedIn and see people I went to school with in positions I want to be in. I think is that not where I am because I didn’t apply myself the same way? Or is that not my lane? I apply on LinkedIn a lot and get shot down, my thing is I want “better” but I don’t want to keep changing my resume, I don’t want to be “controlled” I want stability and freedom… is that insane?

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Do you take initiative and go above and beyond?
Honestly nothing wrong with coasting, I’m currently in a coasting phase, but I can’t expect to be promoted or get a huge raise while doing so. When I was working hard to achieve more, I got a new role which included a promotion to VP and a big raise.
If someone just launched their 3rd startup, they’ve been actively working really hard to get businesses off the ground. Those things don’t just happen, so the only thing for you to “be jealous of” OR more accurately, things for you to admire and aspire to are their ambition and dedication - and these are traits that you can learn.

Fair take!

Envy is a "map" of what you want most in life, though it need to be control to avoid toxic.

I decided to be on LinkedIn for 10 minutes a day, OR only if I have a purpose, like connecting with a recruiter or a former colleague. Go on it, scroll for a bit, feel bad about yourself for a few minutes, then leave. I have to talk to yourself about not being trapped in the negative self-talk after my 10-minute session, and then move on with more constructive things.

Linked in is like the instagram highlights reel of the workplace

Not really. I don't use LinkedIn. I know peope swear by it, but from everything I've seen, it's just a glorified social media platform.

I had this in the past. And then I realized for almost all of the people I looked up, I would honestly hate to have their jobs!

“Would I want their job?” I’m gonna try that next time.

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