Ever been told that you have to bite your tongue in leadership meetings or be more diplomatic? Specifically in being honest with the president/CEO of the company because he gets angry easily?

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Yes. And have learned over the years that how you deliver the message is sometimes more important than the message itself.

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I think this is true-unfortunately, most CEO’s are tiptoed around so much they don’t hear the truth. Everything is fluffed and softened for them. It’s also their egos get in the way of hearing the truth of what will matter. I have uncovered major $$ issues and been told to not say anything, because CEO would explode. Problem is not solved-I’m looking for a new job where integrity matters.

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Best of luck in your search!

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